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#161 Dbld78

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    Posted 20 May 2008 - 02:34 PM

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    wow danielle, i'm really sorry you're going thru this hugs to you, and you know we'll be here on BDW if you get lonely!
    Thanks Abbie!

    #162 Kat81

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      Posted 20 May 2008 - 02:34 PM

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      OK! So I've noticed lately that I feel as though I might be slipping back into my "coma". I called out of the studio today and could not get out of bed today! I am stressed out beyond belief, I'm completely alone for the next 3 months while Tim is serving his 90 day sentence for his DUI. The only time I get to see him is when I pick him up to take him to and from work! My mom's brain surgery was rescheduled again, they moved it from June 20th to July 9th! They were trying to wait until after the wedding but felt that if they waited something could go wrong between now and then! And while I have really enjoyed planning my wedding it is stressful enough and now having to deal with everything else on top of that is really pushing to my breaking point! Seriously, one of these issues ALONE is enough to throw someone over the edge! I think I am going to call my doc and get some stronger drugs!

      YOU don't want to get a DUI in PA! It's brutal.....a $50 bar tab will end up costing us 5 years of punishment and $15,000 when it's all said and done! Just a word of advice DON'T do it!
      Sounds like you need a vacation. If you ever want to head to Texas for a break you can always stay at my house :) Sometimes, you just need a breather... maybe a weekend away. Sorry you are dealing with so much. I will pray for your Mom. And at least you get to see your FI and touch him and kiss him. It could be worse. I know that doesn't help much.

      #163 Yari

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        Posted 20 May 2008 - 05:08 PM

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        OK! So I've noticed lately that I feel as though I might be slipping back into my "coma". I called out of the studio today and could not get out of bed today! I am stressed out beyond belief, I'm completely alone for the next 3 months while Tim is serving his 90 day sentence for his DUI. The only time I get to see him is when I pick him up to take him to and from work! My mom's brain surgery was rescheduled again, they moved it from June 20th to July 9th! They were trying to wait until after the wedding but felt that if they waited something could go wrong between now and then! And while I have really enjoyed planning my wedding it is stressful enough and now having to deal with everything else on top of that is really pushing to my breaking point! Seriously, one of these issues ALONE is enough to throw someone over the edge! I think I am going to call my doc and get some stronger drugs!

        YOU don't want to get a DUI in PA! It's brutal.....a $50 bar tab will end up costing us 5 years of punishment and $15,000 when it's all said and done! Just a word of advice DON'T do it!

        Danielle, I am so sorry you are going through all of this! Let me know if you need anything.

        #164 Saraha

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          Posted 20 May 2008 - 06:22 PM

          You poor thing Danielle. I would def contact your doctor before things get worse. You dont want to get deel into your "coma". I would try and fix things before they get worse. I know this is so much easier said than done and couldnt imagine the stress you are going though... let us know if there is anything we can do.

          #165 stltk

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            Posted 20 May 2008 - 11:03 PM

            Danielle, so sorry you are going thru all of this and all at once...my goodness! You've got a lot on your plate, and I would second Sarah's advice to call your doctor. Maybe give him/her a call and talk about what's going on in your life right now. There might be a way to tweak your medication just a tad or add something temporarily to help you cope with everything going on.
            Just a thought, and at least you recognize the "coma" types of feelings coming on and are trying to be proactive so it doesn't get as bad as before.
            You and your family are in my thoughts, you are stronger than you realize!!!

            #166 ErinB

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              Posted 06 November 2008 - 10:52 AM



              I confess I am doing everything in my power today to avoid cleaning my office.

              It is probably a fire hazard and I am really disorganized at the moment, so it needs to be done, I'm just not in the mood to file.

              I thought I might try to revive some of the chit-chat threads.

              #167 Sloan

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                Posted 06 November 2008 - 11:24 AM

                I confess that my FMIL drives me crazy.

                Why does she feel the need to text message me everyday to see if I want to hang out and do girlie things with her.... I dont hang out and do girlie things with my own mother, so why would I want to hang out and do girlie things with FMIL?? Grrr...

                #168 twotees1218

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                  Posted 06 November 2008 - 11:50 AM

                  Oh the recurrent themes make me laugh......

                  - FI's 8 yr old daughter makes me crazy. Since when is 8 the new 13?!? she's ok after a day with us, but why is everyday starting from scratch with the attitude adjustment program?
                  - I hate FI's ex wife - she causes most of the problem with the 8 yr old problem in the first place - why is she so stupid?
                  -FI's sister IS the most self absorbed person I've ever met
                  -FI's mother is the second most self absorbed person - funny sister and mother don't get along ?!?

                  I dream of being able to tell them all "shut the hell up, put a smile on your face and behave. It's our wedding. You may think we want to hear your stupid opinions and complaining, but we don't give a rat's ass!

                  #169 Sloan

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                    Posted 06 November 2008 - 12:00 PM

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                    Oh the recurrent themes make me laugh......

                    - FI's 8 yr old daughter makes me crazy. Since when is 8 the new 13?!? she's ok after a day with us, but why is everyday starting from scratch with the attitude adjustment program?
                    - I hate FI's ex wife - she causes most of the problem with the 8 yr old problem in the first place - why is she so stupid?
                    -FI's sister IS the most self absorbed person I've ever met
                    -FI's mother is the second most self absorbed person - funny sister and mother don't get along ?!?

                    I dream of being able to tell them all "shut the hell up, put a smile on your face and behave. It's our wedding. You may think we want to hear your stupid opinions and complaining, but we don't give a rat's ass!
                    Live the dream! Tell them to screw off!
                    That's probably why no one has tried to give me their 2 cents about the wedding... they all know Ill tell them really how I feel.. Hehe. Wow Im a huge bitch.

                    #170 DallasAshli

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                      Posted 06 November 2008 - 12:12 PM

                      I love this thread. Thanks for reviving it Erin B! Here's my confession - sometimes I want to tell people (young women and brides included) to put your big girl panties on. The person making it so dramatic is you.

                      Edit - I didn't mean that to anyone specific on this thread! I'm just tired of hearing women whine and not take responsibility for their actions.




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