| Originally Posted by **Kat** |
I confess that I do want kids.. and we have actually been talking about having them soon enough (maybe the next year or 2) but I know I am not ready. I think about how I wont be able to take a long shower, or go wherever I want.. when I want, or how things will change with K and I after the focus changes to the baby.... EKKKK that sounds selfish
AHHHH I feel the EXACT same way! FI wants kids yesterday but I do NOT. I agreed to 2 by the time I'm 35 but at this point I really don't even want kids. I want to do my own thing just like you said. I know I'm not ready. I'm hoping in a few years I will want them, but now I just don't.....
| Originally Posted by debbmach |
FI and I are also childless by choice and many of our friends are contemplating the same thing, or they're only have 1 child. FI and I have decided we want our life to be about travelling and exploring the world!
My confession...I work with kids everyday and hate their crazy parents...I don't want to be one of them! I want life to be about me and FI, doing the things that we love, having Sunday afternoon naps and not being responsible for another being! I have nieces and nephews to get my 'kid' fix...one afternoon with them is enough! LOL!
I'm so jealous of you. Even though I used to totally want kids I feel I don't anymore. I would rather travel the world and enjoy life. I have nieces and nephews like you said, I get my "fix". I wish my FI was on this thought level.