| Originally Posted by miss_delerium |Thanks for the advice and comments.
I am also saddened by the fact that she is getting married this November and didn't ask me to be in her wedding party
MY FSIL won't come to our wedding - ugh
| Originally Posted by carolina24 |
ditto here....she and FI don't speak much, but i extended the olive branch and asked her daughter to be one of my flower girls. FSIL agreed and niece got super excited. i bought her a flower girl book and she started "practicing" now FSIL isn't coming and didn't even have the b*lls to tell me personally, that i'm down a flower girl.
confession: i'm kinda glad she's not coming, oops!
My FSIL wasn't coming to ours initially for reasons beyond her control but she never mentioned it. She agreed to be a bridesmaid, do my hair and all and had no plans of coming. It all worked out later and she's coming now, but that was wayyy too frustrating. I feel your pain. One less person you have to pay for/worry about tho!
| Originally Posted by BachataBride |
I confess that my DH is being a douche!!! What gives him the right to tell me how to do certain things that affect him around the house (ie, wind the hose a certain way so he can mow without interference) but when I ask him to do something that will help me around the house (ie, put his bathroom stuff back in the drawer where he gets them so they are not in the way when I clean the bathroom) it's called nagging, or being anal! He pisses me off sometimes!!! And this is twice now in the last week...
OMG! You are not alone!!
| Originally Posted by KittenHeart |
CONFESSION - I freaking HATE earthquakes! We JUST had one and I nearly had a heart attack, stupid California
Manders sorry I got caught up in the earthquake when I was about to agree with you.
I agree... the very word nag or nagging sends me into rage! Can't stand it... even worse, "you're not my mother!" Uh yeah, no kidding, don't act like a child that needs one!
Lol! Amy, I'm gonna use that one!
| Originally Posted by jennster_04 |
Im really really up set my gff isnt coming to our wedding, She can afford to go to all her boyfriends friends weddings this summer but not mine, Might i mentin shes known her bf for a yr and know me for 10 yrs. She says she cant afford to come , yet shes been 2 3 weddings so far and even when i offered to pay she said she cant go on a vacation without her boyfriend, who also cant afford to come. Well this isnt a vacation is you bff wedding and i am really PISSED!
This is so sad and I feel your pain. When planning a wedding especially a DW people's true colors are exposed and some of the people we thought would go to the ends of the earth for us act like we shouldn't expect such. I hate that you're going thru this but I'm gonna go out on a limb and say that a "true" friend would sacrifice a trip with her bf to be there for you on one of the most important days of your life.
| Originally Posted by hat0112 |
Confession: In February I scheduled my BD session and I was about 14lbs away from my goal weight so I booked my session for July 11 (this Sunday) to give me time to get my weight down. So what do I do? Gain another 11lbs. We had a lot going on in the past 4 months, but I have no one to blame but myself. A part of me just wants to cancel the session and not do it at all. And also, I donâ€™t fit into my wedding dress. It fit in January, but I canâ€™t zipper it up anymore and I donâ€™t have enough time to lose the 21lbs I need to to get my dress altered in time for the wedding. And I am a Weight Watchers leader!!!!! I help and motivate my members every week and Iâ€™m not even at my own goal! I feel like such a hypocrite and every time I think about my dress not fitting and how fat I will look in my BD pictures it gets me so upset.
I feel your pain on this! I always thought that my wedding would be all the motivation I need to lose weight. It seems like the stress of planning alone adds on pounds. Like someone said tho, you already have the tools you need to lose the weight and you have time. Think about having to go buy another wedding dress and the fact that it would probably be ultra expensive and possibly not ready when you need it. Maybe that can serve as your motivation. As far as the BD shoot....do it! It's something that a few BDW ladies convinced me to do and by no means am I at my goal weight, but FI loves you the way you are and you have to embrace that. Hope it all works out for you!