| Originally Posted by skadow |
I know I am going to sound like the biggest b*tch, but I donâ€™t want my FI niece and nephew to be my flower girl and ring bear. They are only 5 and I am afraid they are going to be running all around, and people are going to think it is cute because they are young. I really have no patients for that type of thing. I do not think it is cute.
I want the attention to be on me. Any other event I would be fine sharing, but not MY wedding.
My FI mother has already hinted to having them in the wedding. And how cute the girl would look in her little dress. â€¦meh
I don't blame you at all - it's YOUR day and YOU should be the star and center of attention. You can choose not to have children in the wedding...tell your FMIL that you appreciate her input.