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Girls- Thanks for sharing your similar stories, not that I hope everyone else has just as sucky friends as I do, but it is nice to know its not just me. I'm really only talking about 3 girls who were my closest friends for years now, not my casual friends. I am not one at all for having attention on me, it was just the lack of any kind of gesture and lies from the people I thought would be there the most. It just made me really sad to see what our friendships have come to after all these years. I know people change and go their seperate ways, but there are those few people that you think you will always have in your life (I know it sounds cheesy). Oh well, now I know their true colors. I wish I was like my husband and could let things go easily, I tend to hold a grudge. I am working on that. I am totally with you girls on needing to find new friends, too bad we are spread out all over the continent!

 

On a positive note, a couple people that I wasn't real close to ended up going on our wedding trip and it really brought us closer, including some family members, so I am very thankful for that.

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I need new friends too!! Move to KW!! :)
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Yeah, I feel your pain. My friends couldnt give a F**K less about my wedding. Im not asking for everyone to drop what they're doing and come to the wedding or plan elaborate parties, but I didnt even get a "hey congrats" after we got engaged or after we sent the invites -- from a large majority of my "close" friends. Some were even mad that we werent having any AHR. Im pretty pissed with a lot of these "friends" of mine. Considering that I put time, effort and money (not that money is factor) into all of their weddings. I need new friends. Im done with a lot of them.
You could both move to CT! I could use some new girlfriends too. :)

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I have a confession!!

 

I feel like my brother and his wife (well, his wife mostly) are always trying to one-up me!!

 

First, we were both engaged but they had to get married first. They had to have the big expensive wedding and invited 100000000000 of their closest family and friends. While we have the small wedding with 20 guests. Then we get our wedding planned and I find out today that they are pregnant. And having their baby ONE WEEK BEFORE OUR WEDDING.

 

ARGH!

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I vote that we all move to one general area, then we could start over with all new BDW friends!!! After all, we are the only ones that "get" us anyway!! LOL
True dat! smile03.gif

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Oh and PS. after the AWESOME support we got from everyone (sarcastic) I was like screw having an AHR. Who would I even invite? People let us down so much, why would I then spend more money to put on a party for these slackers?
I have totally been having that same thought about NOT having an AHR! I honestly don't care too everyone that we truly care about will be in Mexico with us!

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I have a confession!!

I feel like my brother and his wife (well, his wife mostly) are always trying to one-up me!!

First, we were both engaged but they had to get married first. They had to have the big expensive wedding and invited 100000000000 of their closest family and friends. While we have the small wedding with 20 guests. Then we get our wedding planned and I find out today that they are pregnant. And having their baby ONE WEEK BEFORE OUR WEDDING.

ARGH!
My sister did the exact same thing to me! I was really annoyed for awhile, but now I'm really, really excited to meet my baby niece! :) But, boy, did I need to vent when I first found out!

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