Confessions

[BachataBride]

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Originally Posted by Kat81 Holy Crap Kelly I can't believe he is being such an idiot and that y'all aren't living together yet. I say give him a week if he doesn't decide you're doing it yourself!!

I'm with Kat on this on Kelly!! Tell him either get his ass in gear or you're taking over!! This should have been taken care of BEFORE your wedding!!! Men suck! lol

[Kat81]

Ummm Amanda did you post pics without tell me?! Where are they?

[BachataBride]

I did! Sorry I didn't tell you!! LOL

Search RIU Bachata in the DR forum & you'll find them!!

[*Casey*]

Yall are so funny! And yes, she's in Dallas. I called her last night to kill her with kindness, and she never returned my calls. Bi-atch is probably scared of me, and she should be!!!

[Kat81]

LOL I can't believe she didn't call you back. I'm so glad you don't back down to her!

[Kat81]

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Originally Posted by Goldstein to Be My confession is...I'm completely annoyed with our wedding party. Here's the rundown: BM1 & GM1 got married last year. We had to take three days off for their wedding and we didn't even have to travel. They had so many events and activities that we had to be at. They just told me they are flying in Friday (our weeding is saturday) and flying out on Monday - WTH you couldn't take one extra day to spend time with us? BM2 invited her sister, sister's husband and dad. Not too worried because her family is great. Meanwhile, she refuses to go with the other girls to look for a dress. I live 1,000 miles away from the 3 of them so I can't really pick her up and make her go along. GM2 Just spent two weeks living at my house and whining about everything. He's mad because he's going to be out of the country for 3 months and is going to miss FI's bachelor party. Is that our problem? GM3 decided to come the day before the wedding but is staying for a week after because his girlfriend is coming the day after the wedding (she's invited but can't miss a test on the day of the wedding). Grrr. This our day and we really wanted our friends to be a part of it. I'm feeling really annoyed with them... but obviously won't tell them.

BLAH! I feel ya! If the girl doesn't want to take the time out to get a dress maybe she shouldn't be in the wedding party! You don't need added stress you need someone to support you. I was in the same boat as you. My MOH lives in Cali and I told her for three months to go try on dresses so I knew what kind of style she liked so that when my BM and I went shopping here that we would keep that in mind. She didn't go then got pissed at the dress we picked out and the only reason we picked the dress we did is because we thought it would be flattering on her. And guess what?! EVERYONE told us how much they loved the dress and how flattering it was on her. So whatever, nobody is going to be happy with the decisions you make you just have to try to rise above it. Soon you will get the destination bride attitude. If you don't like it, don't come

[KLC77]

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Originally Posted by Kat81 Holy Crap Kelly I can't believe he is being such an idiot and that y'all aren't living together yet. I say give him a week if he doesn't decide you're doing it yourself!!

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Originally Posted by BachataBride I'm with Kat on this on Kelly!! Tell him either get his ass in gear or you're taking over!! This should have been taken care of BEFORE your wedding!!! Men suck! lol

Yeah, I'm getting really pissed. We have totally opposite schedules right now too so it makes it so hard. I have a snow day today so I will be able to see him tonight, but if that didn't happen the only day I would even see him this week would have been Friday. He works from 7am to 5pm and I have school 2 nights a week from 5pm to 9pm and the other nights I'm usually working 3:30pm to 10:30 pm, plus working on the weekends too. Its ridiculous. At least if we lived together we'd have a few minutes everyday together. So, tonight when I go over there I'm telling him I want a decision. Either we're going back to one of the condos and making an offer THIS WEEKEND or he's sucking it up and moving in where I live even though we both won't fit, its gross and its attached to my parents house.

[Kat81]

Kelly did you see this thread?

http://bestdestinationwedding.com/forum/t36015

I don't know if you guys are first time home buyers but maybe you could let him know about it and it might be entice him to hurry his ass up.

[BachataBride]

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Originally Posted by KLC77 Yeah, I'm getting really pissed. We have totally opposite schedules right now too so it makes it so hard. I have a snow day today so I will be able to see him tonight, but if that didn't happen the only day I would even see him this week would have been Friday. He works from 7am to 5pm and I have school 2 nights a week from 5pm to 9pm and the other nights I'm usually working 3:30pm to 10:30 pm, plus working on the weekends too. Its ridiculous. At least if we lived together we'd have a few minutes everyday together. So, tonight when I go over there I'm telling him I want a decision. Either we're going back to one of the condos and making an offer THIS WEEKEND or he's sucking it up and moving in where I live even though we both won't fit, its gross and its attached to my parents house.

That's it Kelly!! You tell him!!

[InspiredBride]

Oh I am so glad I found this thread! Hi everyone.

 

I also confess that I am pretending to work right now (and am so glad to read that I'm not the only one!). And I also confess that I stayed home from work yesterday "sick" (actually working on wedding brochure, reading this forum, and doing other completely non-urgent planning activities).

 

Kelly, I am really glad you're putting your foot down. I hope the conversation goes well!