Confessions

[~*Kathy*~]

The mods deleted the shoutbox because it got so huge and the posts got deleted along with it. We're over it now but it was funny! lol

[~*Lisa*~]

oh my, that's crazy!! so shoutbox doesn't exist anymore?

[BachataBride]

A new one is started Lisa, just do a search - girl, you've got some catching up to do! lol

[Erika J]

Yael- I guess I just loved your pics by NT in your dress so much and it was such an amazing dress that I wanted more pics in a very selfish way

[YaelM]

Aww thanks Erika

 

We are suppose to get our CD this week....I. CANT. WAIT.!!!!!!!!!!

[~*Lisa*~]

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Originally Posted by BachataBride A new one is started Lisa, just do a search - girl, you've got some catching up to do! lol

I saw it today, that's why I was confused as to what you guys were saying. I love the shoutbox, but seriously, I cannot keep up - there's no point! lol you ladies are crazy there, I love it!!

[*kellis*]

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Originally Posted by Meg&Shay I went in for my first fitting today and there was another bride there with her mom, FMIL, sisters, and BMs. She had an elaborate wedding gown with a cathedral train and veil and said she was having a big Catholic wedding. For a split second, I felt like I made a mistake not taking the traditional route. But then I came back here and looked at all the gorgeous DW and TTD pics and I forgot all about it.

I think I'm lucky that the huge elaborate wedding and long cathedral train and veil just never appealed to me. Honestly it makes me cringe. I would be so uncomfortable and feel like a made up poodle.
But I do get it that when you decide to have a DW, you have to give up some stuff because you can't do it all when you're so far from home. But then you look at what you will have, a one of a kind wedding that isn't like every other one people have gone to and it makes up for it in the end.

[~Jessica~]

I confess I just used the last 45 mins of my work day to read this thread...and it is awesome!!

 

So now I will confess.....

 

A girl I used to be best friends with but we kinda grew apart over the last year, moved recently back to her home state where she met a guy and they started dating. They got engaged last week after 5 months together and are planning their wedding a month before mine. Her dad is paying for the whole thing but has the nerve to ask me what kind of budget I am working with (my FI and I are paying for our whole wedding) and tells me "who knew wedding stuff was so expensive!" So not only is she flaking on my wedding, but had the nerve to write me a message on facebook that she guessed I wouldn't be able to make it to her wedding since it will be a month before mine, but to drink a beer on her wedding day to think of her. IS SHE F**KING SERIOUS!

Okay now I feel better. Is it wrong to think she is stealing my thunder by getting married before me??

[cougs]

oooh jessica that would piss me right off. hers isn't a DW tho, right? there's no thunder theft because your wedding will be 14864841364651466 times better than hers. everyone will come home talking about the great time they had at yours and she will be sorry she missed it and wishing she had waited awhile to get married.

 

then again, if my daddy paid for my entire wedding i probably would have had mine a lot sooner too. who knew weddings were so expensive? the people who actually PAY for them, that's who! ugh!

[~Jessica~]

Thanks so much Lisa, my wedding will be 1456653387098876 times better than her's!! I just think it is totally shady what she is doing and it is bad friend etiquette. And I agree if my dad had the money to pay for my wedding it would be easier. But in some ways earning and saving for something so special makes it so much more special if that makes any sense.