Confessions

[~*Kathy*~]

Yael - Awww hun I'm so sad for you! Come to my place and get drunk with me, I know a really yummy German white wine we can have hehe!

[jax_the_beach_bride]

LOL!! you guys make me laugh!!.. i created the best mixed drink ever... lol its Bambino and any kind of flavoured vodka.. put those two together and whammy you've got one powerful drink on a low budget.. and it tastes DELICIOUS!! (thats the dangerous part)

 

i confess that i like lady gaga's music, but my roomate ruined poker face for me because she kept playing it OVER AND OVER AND OVER again!!! and i liked it too.. but now... its ruined!

[cougs]

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Originally Posted by jax_the_beach_bride i created the best mixed drink ever... lol its Bambino and any kind of flavoured vodka.. put those two together and whammy you've got one powerful drink on a low budget.. and it tastes DELICIOUS!! (thats the dangerous part)!

what the heck is "bambino?" man, i really DO live under a rock, don't i?

[jax_the_beach_bride]

Bambino is a really cheap sparkling wine up here in chilli canada! LOL... im sure there is an equivalent to that in the states!! its 12 bucks for a magnum!! haha...

[drtracy]

I confess that I think all brides that had their weddings cancelled should sue. Sue the media, the airlines, whoever. I think the stress and emotional damages should be highly rewarded.

 

On another note, I confess that I'm secretly thinking things that I shouldn't about my trip, things such as, wouldn't it be fun if the resort was empty and we got VIP treatment everywhere and fun discounts on scuba diving and such... Is this bad of me?

[BachataBride]

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Originally Posted by paraisobeachbride2009 Oh Lisa! I know how you feel! You know how he can say "oh well" so easily? He probably didn't put a ton of time and effort in to planning the thing...YOU did, that's why you're upset and he isn't. He probably figures if you guys need to, you can always get married at home or some small JOP thing (DH suggested this multiple times). Re: arguments, that sounds like us haha. I sit there and lose my shit and he just kind of shrugs it off, which of course only makes me crazier! haha

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Originally Posted by mummergirl i confess that it's kinda aggravating me that my FI seems sorta unconcerned with the whole swine flu vs. our wedding thing. like "oh well." if people cancel, "oh well," if we'll have to scramble to move the location last minute, "oh well," if we might have to end up cancelling everything and just getting married at city hall, "oh well, it is what it is." i mean, he's absolutely right in that there is really nothing we can do about this, and getting upset won't help, but geez, it's coming off like he could care less whether we got married at all! if nothing else, at least don't dismiss my feelings as me being "stupid" for getting all worked up over something i can't control. in truth, he's kinda always like this. for instance, he thinks he actually "wins" arguments by keeping calm, cool, and collected while i scream and throw a fit. i always tell him, "just because i'm crazy doesn't mean i'm wrong!"

I'm with you both!!! I hate that Dh can brush off so much, especially when it's really important to me!!! He's completely fed up with how much I am obsessing with my pictures. Like he says, we can't get the day back, but I still want to obsess!!! LET ME BE BITTER AND JUST SHUT THE UP!!!!

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Originally Posted by yoAzul i confess i just had half a bottle of wine to numb myself even more that i no longer get my destination wedding.

Oh sweetie I'm so sorry for you...and all the bride victims of the swine flu. Are there any big papers doing stories on brides who are cancelling their weddings due to this?? I haven't really been following the media about it. I think someone should make everyone aware the type of sacrifices people are having to make based on the media blowing this out of proportion.

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Originally Posted by drtracy On another note, I confess that I'm secretly thinking things that I shouldn't about my trip, things such as, wouldn't it be fun if the resort was empty and we got VIP treatment everywhere and fun discounts on scuba diving and such... Is this bad of me?

That's too funny Tracy...but be careful you don't set yourself up for a disappointment. I know that you realize your thoughts will never become a reality, but if you keep thinking about them you could be disappointed!

[Sloan]

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Originally Posted by jax_the_beach_bride Bambino is a really cheap sparkling wine up here in chilli canada! LOL... im sure there is an equivalent to that in the states!! its 12 bucks for a magnum!! haha...

Dude! Bambino every New Years! Hahahah even though I could afford a better bottle of bubbly.

[~*Kathy*~]

Jax - That sounds really taste, I'll take one of those right now please!

 

Amanda - My heart really goes out to you, if I thought my pictures were awful, I'd want to wallow in my own self-pitty and bitterness too! And I WOULD expect DH to understand damnit! It is a huge deal to any girl and to make you feel like you should let it go is silly. I would do a re-do photoshoot like you are thinking about doing. I would insist on it actually.

 

Tracy - haha that is an awesome idea! I hope you get the VIP treatment too so you can come back and tell us all about your amazing time in Mexico...take that media!

[DWandMJ]

Forgive me, but I can't comprehend why people are so paranoid about this swine flu, to the point of cancelling a vaca or even worse, their weddings. Thats as bad as having people pull out because of the drug cartels in Mexico kidnapping and murdering people. Pretty good chances that its not going to affect you or any of your guests. Theres some kind of flu epidemic every year. Just stay away from the livestock and wash your hands regularly. And for safety sake, stay along the well beaten tourist path.

[bride7474]

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Originally Posted by DWandMJ Forgive me, but I can't comprehend why people are so paranoid about this swine flu, to the point of cancelling a vaca or even worse, their weddings. Thats as bad as having people pull out because of the drug cartels in Mexico kidnapping and murdering people. Pretty good chances that its not going to affect you or any of your guests. Theres some kind of flu epidemic every year. Just stay away from the livestock and wash your hands regularly. And for safety sake, stay along the well beaten tourist path.

You said it! I completely agree! There is always going to be 'something'. The swine flu just happens to be what the media decided to focus on this month!