Confessions

[~*Kathy*~]

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Originally Posted by mummergirl i confess that it's kinda aggravating me that my FI seems sorta unconcerned with the whole swine flu vs. our wedding thing. like "oh well." if people cancel, "oh well," if we'll have to scramble to move the location last minute, "oh well," if we might have to end up cancelling everything and just getting married at city hall, "oh well, it is what it is." i mean, he's absolutely right in that there is really nothing we can do about this, and getting upset won't help, but geez, it's coming off like he could care less whether we got married at all! if nothing else, at least don't dismiss my feelings as me being "stupid" for getting all worked up over something i can't control. in truth, he's kinda always like this. for instance, he thinks he actually "wins" arguments by keeping calm, cool, and collected while i scream and throw a fit. i always tell him, "just because i'm crazy doesn't mean i'm wrong!"

Oh Lisa! I know how you feel! You know how he can say "oh well" so easily? He probably didn't put a ton of time and effort in to planning the thing...YOU did, that's why you're upset and he isn't. He probably figures if you guys need to, you can always get married at home or some small JOP thing (DH suggested this multiple times). Re: arguments, that sounds like us haha. I sit there and lose my shit and he just kind of shrugs it off, which of course only makes me crazier! haha

[cougs]

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Originally Posted by paraisobeachbride2009 Re: arguments, that sounds like us haha. I sit there and lose my shit and he just kind of shrugs it off, which of course only makes me crazier! haha

haha OMG doesn't it?!?!??!! it makes me lose my mind!

[~*Kathy*~]

Ugh, like you wouldn't believe! I go in to an absolute frenzy! haha

[~Stephanie~]

Oh Lisa, you paint a pictures so well! lol.

 

I think a lot of men are like "oh well" about a lot of stuff- just makes you want to smack them!

 

I confess that FI and I had a small spat last weekend that he did this very thing, unconcerned and looking at me like I was crazy

... so I threw silverware at him, just chucked it across the kitchen right at him... not one of my proudest moments and it surely made me seem even crazier! But it finally got through to him how upset I was! Don't worry I didn't throw anything sharp.. yet.

 

They just don't get worked up about things like we do, FI says that there is not point getting upset about things you don't have control over and can't do anything about- pisses me off when he says that!

[cougs]

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Originally Posted by ~Stephanie~ FI says that there is not point getting upset about things you don't have control over and can't do anything about- pisses me off when he says that!

even more so, because we know they're right. f*ckers!

watch out people, steph's throwing silverware! LMFAO!

[~*Kathy*~]

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Originally Posted by ~Stephanie~ They just don't get worked up about things like we do, FI says that there is not point getting upset about things you don't have control over and can't do anything about- pisses me off when he says that!

OMG, yours says that too?!?! I HATE that line!

I guess I better add a confession. I confess that I LOVE Lady Gaga's entire album and listen to it all the time and know almost all of the words to each song haha. I heard she was going to do a world tour some time, I'd love to see her if she came to Edmonton to do a show. DH would never take me haha so I guess I'd have to ask my best buddy.

[~Stephanie~]

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Originally Posted by paraisobeachbride2009 I guess I better add a confession. I confess that I LOVE Lady Gaga's entire album and listen to it all the time and know almost all of the words to each song haha. I heard she was going to do a world tour some time, I'd love to see her if she came to Edmonton to do a show. DH would never take me haha so I guess I'd have to ask my best buddy.

OMG! I totally sing her songs all the time! My FI hates her and things she is ridiculous so I make sure to sing the songs around him just so he will get them stuck in his head!

[cougs]

i confess i must live under a rock because i have never even heard of lady gaga

[~*Kathy*~]

Stephanie - lol I do that to DH too but I think he actually likes some of her stuff too, not that he'd ever admit it out loud. My favorite thing about Lady Gaga is that she isn't afraid to be herself. Have you read some of her interviews? Wow, she has "balls"! And her outrageous outfits she goes out in are always so fascinating (not that I'd ever wear them but wow!).

 

Lisa - Go buy yourself a copy of Lady Gaga's album "The Fame" and you will be totally hooked!! Her songs are so catchy (and fun to work out to)!

 

P.S. I also confess that I am a total blog-stalker lol! I'll stalk wedding photog blogs, Perez Hilton, Go Fug Yourself...I LOVE them all! hehehe

[YaelM]

i confess i just had half a bottle of wine to numb myself even more that i no longer get my destination wedding.