Confessions

[drtracy]

Me three I even like my FStepMIL.

[BachataBride]

Quote:

Originally Posted by Steph158 My LONG list of confessions: 1. I am not happy with my FI proposal but I could never tell him. He said all the right things but it didn't take place anywhere really special, it didn't feel like he planned this great romantic thing that I had hoped for. 3. I am probably one of the very few girls on here that likes my FMIL! That itself is a confession! lol. But as hard as I try with my FBIL, he just will not warm up to me and its been 2 1/2 years. My FI moved to another state to be with me and I don't know if he is resentful of that or not. He is never mean, just doesn't really talk to me.

I'm with you on #1 & #3 too!! I love my MIL too!! She is so sweet!! But I guess it helps that she lives in another province and I only see her once or twice a year!!
My proposal was less than stellar. It was very impromptu...there wasn't even a ring!!

Quote:

Originally Posted by mummergirl (fiance is 9 years younger than me),

You go girl!!

Quote:

Originally Posted by Andi 1.) There is a small part of me that will be so glad when this wedding is over! I feel like every extra penny that we have goes straight to something for the wedding and I am tired of it! We bought a house last September and now that the weather is getting nicer I want to spend some money re-doing the landscaping and stuff but I can't even think about that until this dang wedding is over!!!!!!!!

I hear ya girl!!! Although we didn't go over board on the wedding stuff I just wish we had more money to do stuff around the house!!

My confession...

I want a maternity ticker!!! I never thought I was going to be ready to have a baby this quick after our wedding!!! Well...a part of me is still not really ready, but there is another part of me that is dying to be pregnant!!

[~Stephanie~]

Quote:

Originally Posted by BachataBride I'm with you on #1 & #3 too!! I love my MIL too!! She is so sweet!! But I guess it helps that she lives in another province and I only see her once or twice a year!! My proposal was less than stellar. It was very impromptu...there wasn't even a ring!! My confession... I want a maternity ticker!!! I never thought I was going to be ready to have a baby this quick after our wedding!!! Well...a part of me is still not really ready, but there is another part of me that is dying to be pregnant!!

Maybe that's way I love my FMIL! She lives in another state! She is very quirky, she makes me laugh.

And although I am not married yet and I have kids from a previous marriage, FI and I have had the talks about if we will have any more kids. I really want another baby someday but my kids are getting older and it would be like starting over, so its a tough decision but we have decided that we will in a few years. As much as I want my freedom with future DH to do fun things, I can't imagine not having a baby with him!

Confession for today... I ate a really large piece of birthday cake last night with lots of chocolate frosting... I feel very guilty today. I will not spend all day on here at work today like I did yesterday.

[BachataBride]

Quote:

Originally Posted by Steph158 I will not spend all day on here at work today like I did yesterday.

Famous last words Steph!! I tell myself that everyday!! LOL

[missdanelle]

I second that Amanda & Steph...

[~Nicole~]

I don't want my first confession to be really bad, so I'll start with something small..... I hate going to the gym! My wedding is in November and I joined the gym this past October, paying a year membership. I can't take it anymore! I've lost 10lbs and can't seem to lose anymore....mind you I'm not putting in as much effort anymore. I can't quit because my guilt of wasting that money would never let me, but secretly I really wish I could just drop it. lol.

[~Stephanie~]

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nikki07 I don't want my first confession to be really bad, so I'll start with something small..... I hate going to the gym! My wedding is in November and I joined the gym this past October, paying a year membership. I can't take it anymore! I've lost 10lbs and can't seem to lose anymore....mind you I'm not putting in as much effort anymore. I can't quit because my guilt of wasting that money would never let me, but secretly I really wish I could just drop it. lol.

Oh I hear ya! I paid for a year membership last fall and I am dragging my butt out of bed every AM at 5 and I am not really seeing the results I want. I am not a morning person and I just want to give up and cry and eat a big tub of ben and jerry's. But I WILL look amazing in my dress and for the photos, so I keep going... sadly.

[BachataBride]

Quote:

Originally Posted by dolcegirl01 Amanda, I am with you. I thought I was pregnant yesterday since I missed my period, but then I wasn't. I was relived, but part of me was also sad. Even though we just got married I kind of have baby fever. I think if money and career weren't part of the equation I would be pregnant right now!

Yeah...I hear ya Kate. Although...I don't really give a shit about the career thing right now!...it's more the money. And I don't think DH is ready yet either. Although, I'm hoping that if it ever just happened he would man up & take the responsibility. But as for timing it...he's definitely not there yet.

[KLC77]

I confess that I am going to go out and get my own apartment if DH doesn't stop pissing me off! We've been bidding on two condos we like. One didn't work out. Its our turn to put in a counter offer on the 2nd one and now he wants to wait 2 weeks to decide what he wants to do. He doesn't give a shit because I'm the one who has to call the mortgage guy and tell him and call the RE agent and tell her. He just has to tell me. He makes me waste other peoples time as well as my own and I've had it. Its not like we thought they were going to accept our first offer. We knew we would have to counter. He has an unrealistic view of what he wants to do and I'm sooo mad right now. I've had enough of stressing over the where we are going to live subject.

[~Stephanie~]

Quote:

Originally Posted by KLC77 I confess that I am going to go out and get my own apartment if DH doesn't stop pissing me off! We've been bidding on two condos we like. One didn't work out. Its our turn to put in a counter offer on the 2nd one and now he wants to wait 2 weeks to decide what he wants to do. He doesn't give a shit because I'm the one who has to call the mortgage guy and tell him and call the RE agent and tell her. He just has to tell me. He makes me waste other peoples time as well as my own and I've had it. Its not like we thought they were going to accept our first offer. We knew we would have to counter. He has an unrealistic view of what he wants to do and I'm sooo mad right now. I've had enough of stressing over the where we are going to live subject.

I'm so sorry, I would be fuming too! I say that he needs to be the one to call if he is going to be like that! Maybe getting your own apartment (or threatening to) will put his priorities in perspective or scare him enough to!
Good Luck, I wish I had some better words of advise.