Confessions

[BachataBride]

I confess that I'm scared FI is not going to be romantic enough on our wedding day! I really want him to be all focused on me and all lovey-dovey...but that's not him (especially with people around). I want us to be those people that can't keep their hands off each other (not in a gross way!)

[DanielleNDerek]

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Originally Posted by edssbride09 I confess that i have no interest in planning anything to do with my wedding right now... i know i should be all excited about favours, oot bags, decor, menus... i am a chick after-all and i should be all "bridal"... but i want nothing to do with any of it... I just want the day to come and be a big, fun, romantic party!

I went through a phase like this when I was about 6 months out. but than i got excited again. Maybe it's just a phase for you too.


Amanda you never know. My dh and I are so not pda people or cuddle people and he was all over me at the wedding. He was hammered maybe that helped. He actually started to get on my nerves a little because he wouldnt stop telling me how much he loved me and stuff. I know that sounds mean but he would not shut up, he just kept repeating himself over and over. I was like "okay I get it!"

[BachataBride]

Oh no...I don't want the drunken love!!

But that's probably what I'll get!! I'll take that over nothing though!!

Keep your fingers crossed for me!

[DanielleNDerek]

i'll keep em crossed!

[tchuchuca]

Amanda, I have the same fear! I love FI and he's romantic in a different way when we're alone, but he's not big into PDAs and HATES being the center of attention!

[BachataBride]

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Originally Posted by tchuchuca Amanda, I have the same fear! I love FI and he's romantic in a different way when we're alone, but he's not big into PDAs and HATES being the center of attention!

I also scared that his attention will be elsewhere...the unlimited booze!!!

I actually already gave him his warning...that day is MY day!! He can booze all he wants the other days of our trip! (well...not the night before the wedding either!)

[1elephant]

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Originally Posted by BachataBride I confess that I'm scared FI is not going to be romantic enough on our wedding day! I really want him to be all focused on me and all lovey-dovey...but that's not him (especially with people around). I want us to be those people that can't keep their hands off each other (not in a gross way!)

i told my sister to remind him to be romantic every once in a while. he remembered to tell me i looked beautiful on his own, but before our dance, she told him to pretend there was no one around and kiss me...she did it a few times throughout the night. do you have someone who can remind him that it's your wedding day?

[BachataBride]

That's a good idea!! I'll delegate that to someone!!! Thanks Lauren!!

[missdanelle]

Im definately worried about this one as well...especially with our group of friends/family. Once the tequila comes out....forget it!

I'm definately going to have to find someone responsible enough to remind my FI to be romantic... Thanks Lauren!

[KLC77]

Lauren, that is such great advice! I've been worrying about the same thing and I know I can get my brother to remind him of this.

 

Ok girls, I have a big confession. I just spent $350 on makeup! Holy $hit! I don't know how it happened. I went in for a makeup lesson and bought the whole damn place! I will say that the woman made all of the make up for me right there in the store. So, everything is made just for my skin. But still, my FI would kill me. Everyone I know would kill me if I told them. I can't believe I did that... Big time buyers remorse right now.