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Originally Posted by debbmach View Post

 

I wish FI didn't have to work such long hours...he works part time and is in school full time. I know it's helping with us financially, but I am starting to miss spending time with him :(

I know how that feels. Mine just finally finished school! Four years of basically not seeing him cuz he'd be in school all day, go to work, get home, do homework till like 2:00 am, sleep - rinse and repeat. It's brutal, but it'll be over before you know it! Hang in there, girl.

 

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I had my first dress fitting last night and my dress didnâ€t zipper up. I finally got it to zipper 2 weeks ago, but I had a bad few days last weekend and my weight shot up. I was so embarrassed and upset. The seamstress was insisting to take the dress out, but I just couldnâ€t let her do it. How could I let this happen? It fit when I bought it. I work out and eat right all week and have been for almost 3 months. I should have lost more weight than I did but my body isnâ€t cooperating. So the seamstress and I agreed that if it doesnâ€t fit when I come back for my second appointment on 9/10 then I have to get it let out.

 

And during all this my mom was there and didnâ€t help me at all! She knows I can lose the weight, but had NO confidence in me and agreed with the seamstress about having it let out! She knows it zippered 2 weeks ago and we talked about it being able to fit just fine for the wedding before we got to the appointment. But when we were there she threw me under the bus and made me sound like a crazy bride!

 

Ok, maybe this is more of a rant then a confession.... sorry sad.gif

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I hope no one judges me for this one, or thinks I'm too freaking selfish and awful for words...

But..this is something that I could never say out loud to anyone so..here I go...

 

My confession is that I can't believe I didn't get anything when my father passed away last year.  I wasn't expecting a huge amount of $$ and I know his business wasn't doing well..and now my step-mom is actually having to sell their 2 mortgage condo...but I was his Baby Girl...and the fact that there was nothing at all left in the will for me...upsets me....

 

I will definitely be confessing more later....

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My confession is that most of my family doesn't know I'm getting married.   My mother has Alzheimer's and my father is very old so of course it wouldn't make any difference with my mother but my father is like my sister and brother so I won't tell him.  My brother and sister went nuts when they heard me speaking on the phone to him.  They realized where he is from when I repeated something that he said.  So I haven't told them anything either.  He was hurt because he heard the horrible comments that they made.

 

I totally hate my bosses.  I walk up a hill on evenings when I get really pissed off with them and other days I feel so depressed or have headaches that I just sleep.  They mess up all the time but they cover up their screw ups and jump on me every time I make a mistake.

 

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Well, only a handful of people know we've set a date and are getting married...in Mexico! It seems like everybody we know (tons of people) keeps saying that they're looking forward to their invite because they think we're getting married here locally. Well so many (including family) will be in for a rude awakening to know about our plans and the fact that we're only inviting 20 people!!!

 

Secondly, my fi hasn't surprised me with the ring yet and I am soooo scared he will get something I don't like! I do not like solitaires!! The bad part, I don't hide feelings well, they show all over my face so if I don't like it, he'll know immediately!! Sigh....

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Originally Posted by Boo View Post





In terms of the rings, maybe tell him what it is that you want if you have something specific in mind, everything I told FH turned beautifully and there are def. 1/2 bug to be till this day, and its been 10 months of me wearing it, I tried bringing up the subject but it seems I am in a loosing battle as its after the fact - speak up now otherwise you just might have to wear whatever - that being said I am sure he knows that and will do his best, I just know what it feels like to look down and be like well he almost got it, but not quite :(


Thank You for sharing!  I've been trying to figure out how to bring it up without putting pressure on him or making him feel bad.  I know he is planning a "surprise" so it's a little touchy but I am definitely trying to think through how I can share my "likes" so I am definitely smiling in that special moment! love.gif

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