I HATE FI's family right now!
Posted 06 February 2008 - 12:21 AM
And get your f'n $$ back - they owe you!
Posted 06 February 2008 - 09:49 AM
| Originally Posted by Christa |
That really sucks. The fact that you paid their deposits requires they pick an option:
1. Go to the wedding
2. Pay you back what they owe you.
I would not be shy about making that crystal clear.
| Originally Posted by LC_Rachel |
That really sucks- especially when it's FAMILY. But as we have all learned during this DW process, sometimes family isn't any better than the other pathetic assholes out there.
Have you reminded them that they still owe a deposit unless someone else decides to go in their place? I would make it VERY clear that you are not shelling out that kind of money as a gift to their lazy, inconsiderate ways.
| Originally Posted by LadyP |
I am sorry that your future family has caused you all of this drama.
Christa said it best. Either you come and pay for yourself or at every function we will be looking for our money
Hope you're feeling better today
Posted 06 February 2008 - 10:25 AM
It sounds like you will have way more fun without all their drama anyway.
Posted 06 February 2008 - 10:42 AM
But keep your spirits up, don't let the money issue be a factor in your relationship with FI. (Yes, I think he should demand that his family repay the deposits, but don't let that be an issue between you.)
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Posted 07 February 2008 - 10:56 AM
I think that was just my first (and hopefully) last break-down.
One thing I'm sure we have all learned is that this is just part of a DW. You really learn about people's character!
To the Newbies, don't worry! Go on and plan the wedding of your dreams and do what will mean the most to you and FI.
If and when some family member or friend acts like a butt-head, BDW is here for support!
Thanks again! Erin
Posted 07 February 2008 - 01:22 PM
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