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#1 AlmostMrsForbes

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    Posted 26 January 2008 - 10:53 AM

    Hi, Girls!

    I am placing the order for my invites and was wondering ... should I have an RSVP postcard or one with a separate envelope. I will save about $40 if I get the postcard - but didn't know if the separate envelope would look better.

    All the invite stuff is new to me. And ... do your guests really notice/care if it is a postcard v. separate envelope?

    See ... these are the kinds of details that I become obsessed with and it drives me nuts! :-)

    Thanks in advance for your input!



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    Posted 26 January 2008 - 11:21 AM

    We decided to do a postcard kind, saves money on envelopes, but also on weight, when you mail them it will weigh less!

    #3 lucy106

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      Posted 26 January 2008 - 11:23 AM

      Ahh yes the details, they will kill you every time. I dont think anyone would care or notice. They will probably think the postcard is fun and creative! My vote is the postcard, always save a little money when you can!

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        Posted 26 January 2008 - 11:35 AM

        I vote for a postcard, too. For one thing, its less hassle for your guests - don't have to put it in an envelope, get a papercut on their tongue licking it, etc.

        And its easier for you - you don't have to open envelopes, you just flip it over.

        And besides, its a DW - how perfect is the postcard-style RSVP?

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        #5 NYJen

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          Posted 26 January 2008 - 11:46 AM

          I personally like the postcards too. Goes with the whole theme of a destination/vacation wedding. Plus it's different. I think your guests will get a kick out of them.

          #6 AlmostMrsForbes

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            Posted 26 January 2008 - 12:52 PM

            Thanks, Ladies!

            I agree - postcard it is!

            #7 Maura


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            Posted 26 January 2008 - 01:11 PM

            yes i vote for the postcard! its only 26 cents to mail haha and people will think its unique

            #8 Leia78

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              Posted 26 January 2008 - 01:35 PM

              postcard all the way!

              #9 amyh


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                Posted 26 January 2008 - 01:46 PM

                I say postcard! I love the look!

                #10 StephanieMN

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                  Posted 26 January 2008 - 03:27 PM

                  I did postcards and the only issues I may be having is that we might have lost one. They are so small that I am afraid they are getting in with the junk mail. Just check carefully or put something bright on them so they stick out.

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