Opinon about a possible bridesmaid. Help!
Posted 23 January 2008 - 01:50 PM
Posted 23 January 2008 - 02:06 PM
When is your wedding? Is this something you can wait a few months to ask her, just to see how things go.
Posted 23 January 2008 - 02:12 PM
I will say that as I get older, I can only say that I really miss some of the friends that I have lost contact with. Some have been through huge falling outs (like stealing from me) but I still miss the friendship I once had. If you are able to repair a friendship and feel good about doing so then do it!
One of my friends got married this last summer and I used to be REALLY close to her. We had graduated from college and lost contact. She had remained in contact with 2 other girls that I was also really close with. They were in her wedding and I wasn't. It was really hard to go to the wedding. I felt like I had missed out on so much and it made me feel even worse because I suddenly realized I was no longer an important person in her life. It was really hard. I'm sure your friend doesn't expect to be IN your wedding, but if she goes to it, I'm sure it will be really hard for her too.
If you really want your friendship to blossom again, why not give it a shot? Especially if the reason you all had a falling out is a silly reason now.
Posted 23 January 2008 - 02:47 PM
if it was an alcohol induced falling out, than that is different from a normal falling out, you know? I am only having my sis, his sis, and my sis-in-law in my wedding but i have 2 friends that i would love to ask but i want to keep it small. since you are having the other 2 girls that you used to run with than i think you should invite her.
Posted 23 January 2008 - 02:49 PM
if you feel you still are not close enough, do not do it.
Posted 23 January 2008 - 02:57 PM
Posted 23 January 2008 - 03:13 PM
Posted 24 January 2008 - 11:49 AM
And worst case, you've got six other bridesmaids to get things done if she doesn't jump in with as much enthusiasm as you'd like.
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