BM's but no GM...How will that work?
Posted 20 January 2008 - 12:54 AM
But anyway, I've already asked my girls to be in the wedding. I mentioned to 1 BM that FI may only have 1 GM or none at all & I wasn't sure what I was gonna do. She said that she didn't know why that would be a problem & that they could still be BM's & walk by themselves. FI says that 1 of his friends has booked & is definitely going to be there. He may just have him as his BM.
What do you think? Should I still have all of my BM's with no GM & 1 best man, or forget the whole thing & have no bridal party? Or if FI has his best man should I just have my MOH? I am too stressed out.
Thanks in advance.
Posted 20 January 2008 - 01:01 AM
I was thinking about not having anybody in the wedding party but I already asked my sister to be my moh and his sister to be my bm. So instead fi is having his dad as his bestman. Family is reliable! Do you have anyone in your families that he is very close to?
I have seen pics of some weddings that had 2 bms and no gms. It looked fine. I think you can do whatever you want with a dw. Like there aren't any rules.
Posted 20 January 2008 - 01:10 AM
I think you should keep whoever you've already asked to be in the wedding (and have booked) and just try to work with what you have. It wouldn't be fair if you had to tell someone they can't be in the wedding b/c someone else screwed up.
IMO I think you should cut out the wishy washy people though. You don't need to stress down to the last minute of who is walking down with who.
Either way, whatever you decide everything is going to be great, the wedding the pictures.
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Posted 20 January 2008 - 03:12 PM
We also have 3 junior bridesmaids and one flower girl and one ring bearer. We also have 3 ushers that are my FI nephews, but they aren't really going to do anything, they are just "ushers" so that they feel like they have a part in the wedding. Is that bad, lol?
Posted 20 January 2008 - 03:20 PM
But really, what the hell is up with our FI's friends? I don't get it at all. Especially since these are guys he's grown up with. But like you said, I'm not worrying about them & they won't be in the wedding even if they show up.
And no Martha, having them be ushers isnt bad, its cute. LOL.
Thanks again ladies. You're great as usual.
Posted 21 January 2008 - 08:11 PM
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