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#71 Spazz

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    Posted 04 February 2008 - 11:42 AM

    Stephanie, I'm so sorry your family is going through this. You are a wonderful daughter and she is so lucky to have you and your sisters watching out for her. You and your mom are in my thoughts.

    #72 Maura

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    Posted 04 February 2008 - 01:16 PM

    Stephanie, I am so sorry you are going through all of this so close to your wedding. If this incident doesn't show your mom that a leopard can't change its spots, I don't know what will.... praying for strength for both of you and sending a big hug your way!

    #73 StephanieMN

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      Posted 04 February 2008 - 01:35 PM

      Thanks! He is still at her place but she assures us he will be leaving soon and won't be back. She is lying to us and trying to change her story about yesterday. She is trying to say she wasn't scared and just wanted us to come over to take him to the bus station--sorry but you don't call someone sobbing just to get them to give someone a ride to the bus. I am totally wiped out right now. I had a test this morning and I hope I at least past it.

      #74 boscobel

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        Posted 04 February 2008 - 01:39 PM

        Oh my goodness, Stephanie, i am so sorry. I got goosebumps reading your update. I thnk you are doing everything you can and should continue as you are. Your mom apparently wants this man to be different, but sometimes she sees the true him. You need to be htere for her when that happens. I hope she realizes before the next 2 weeks!

        #75 JUSTUSTWO

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          Posted 04 February 2008 - 02:19 PM

          Stephanie, you absolutely did the right thing by going over there & you continue to show your mother that you truly care about her & her wellbeing. Hopefully, this incident was enough to show her that he isn't really someone she should have in her life if he would scare her to that point.
          I hope it works out & just know that you're in my thoughts!

          #76 Maura

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          Posted 04 February 2008 - 02:35 PM

          steph, i was just thinking about this... what do you mean by he wanted to get married in 2 weeks to be in the state legally? is he violating his parole or something?

          #77 MelissaH

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            Posted 04 February 2008 - 02:40 PM

            I really hope your mom is serious about kicking him out.
            It`s unfortunate, but sometimes people need a good dose of reality (thank goodness he was only verbally abusive towards her) to get them to think things through.

            #78 Rachelle E.

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              Posted 04 February 2008 - 03:11 PM

              Oh wow...I am SO sorry about all this! I can only imagine how stressed and worried you must be! I really hope your mother is able to see that this is not a healthy situation for her and she stands her ground. I'm so glad you guys were there to check on her...even if she wouldn't let you. You guys are in muy thoughts and I truly hope this guy gets out of her life for good!!!

              #79 StephanieMN

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                Posted 04 February 2008 - 04:40 PM

                Quote:
                Originally Posted by mauraw
                steph, i was just thinking about this... what do you mean by he wanted to get married in 2 weeks to be in the state legally? is he violating his parole or something?

                He has had a visitor pass but that ended a few weeks ago. Does anyone know how I would find out who someones parole officer is?

                #80 gkashmira

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                  Posted 04 February 2008 - 05:08 PM

                  I imagine you could call the local police station and they would be able to point you in the right direction. But I will be honest I feel very scared for you and your mother. I don't know if calling his parole officer is the right thing to do - what if they don't do anything and he finds out you called him in? Just please be very careful and I think you and your sisters are 100% doing the right thing by being there with and for your mother. Good luck - we will all be thinking about you and praying that everything works out alright!
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