Hi Kim I don't know how do the qoute thing so hopefully you get this.
For me as a boudoir photographer, you have to ask lots of question of whatever photographer you choose all are so different, I do edit for things like cellulite but i don't over edit as this is meant to be a reflection of you not fake. When picking someone check their portfolio this is not something you want to pick price over quality on, you want to look at the pics after and go Hot Damn, you want someone who knows boudoir well and how to work with all different types of women.
I always prep my clients on how to prepare for a boudoir shoot from clothing options to what to do the week of and what to expect. The biggest thing for me is shooting for the clients body type knowing the right angles, how to hide the areas they are sensitive about and brining out their attributes. Everyone no matter what size or age has things they can pick apart on themselves it's my job to find out what and work to make them less noticable. The biggest thing I can say is just do it, quit looking in the mirror and picking yourself apart, you are focusing on one thing not the whole image and what you see he doesn't. It is the most amazing experience, it will give you a new perspective on yourself and make you feel incrediable and of course an amazing gift for him. With lingerie go pick out one outfit you don't need a ton, victoria secret can be very helpful if you tell them why you are buying it. Make sure you feel good in it that will reflect in the photo's back to the Hot Damn. Other then that I usually suggest a cute sexy sweater or shirt and a bra and underwear set that's it. If you never wear lingerie he will be so stoked to see you in one piece it will not matter you've already wowed him right there. Side note get your make-up and hair proffessionally done doesn't matter if you usually don't wear make-up this is an investment and you wouldnt spend 10,000 on your wedding and then use plastic forks and paper napkins. It makes the world of difference in photos and adds to making you feel again Hot Damn! Here is my boudoir blog not to plug it but just to give ideas, there is also tips on there that can be helpful no matter who you go to. http://redlipstickboudoir.blogspot.ca/
another thing that lots don't think about boudoir is a great way to prep for wedding photos I know sexy bedroom photos verses loving wedding photos a bit different but not really, you want to look your best in your photos on your wedding day and having practice in how to make yourself look the most Hot Damn pays off. My boudoir brides are much more aware of how to look their best and what works to bring out their attributes on their wedding day.
Side note the resort your getting married at I just photographed a destination wedding at in January so if you have any questions i may be able to help
Lots of info hope it helps