AWW congrats, same here although it will only be 5 years we signed papers and went home to sleep.. LOL I have attempted to plan 3 weddings and have failed in all of them. Mostly because I was listening to other people's opinion and jsut got so mad that I would cancel last minute ( very stressful). This time around our daughters looked at me and said " mom we want to see you in a beautiful wedding dress, and have a real wedding". I am attempting it again, happier than ever. more in love then I was 7 years ago, and with positive thinking. I figure people go on vacation all the time, just because, how hard can it be to go because a family member or friend is having a wedding??? If you can't make it sorry to hear that, we will still go on with our plans. Stay positive ladies, and dont let anyone rain on your parade, try to keep your plans to yourselves so that other people dont make you feel bad.!!!