MrsD2Be

I'm pretty short (5'1") and have always been a heels girl. Plus FH is also almost a foot taller than me. I rarely wear flip flops on a normal day, and don't really care for the look with my gown. It's odd that so many people say to wear whatever dress you fall in love with, but then pair it with casual flip flops. And all the wedges I've seen just look clunky. Our ceremony will be on the beach in Hawaii, followed by dinner at one of the resort's restaurants. I figured that I would still have to walk to and from the beach location and that would be on pavement. Do you think I can still wear heels? I found these Badgley Mischka Randall heels that match my dress perfectly! But they're 4 inches!!! (yikes) Will it look completely stupid if I walk to the ceremony location and take off my heels just before I hit the sand?

Is the starfish still being passed around? I've been trying to find the clear rhinestone one, but they no longer have if for sale. I would LOVE, LOVE, LOVE to have it for my bouquet in September (9/23/2013). Anyone still have one?