It's costing my parents $1706 to stay at BP, and $900 for the plane tickets (flying out of Boston). They are staying for 4 nights. Grand total: $2606. Maybe they should shorten their stay to keep cost down. I've been getting complaints from a few people (non-travelers, and cheap skates), but I could care less. It's all about me and my future hubby, if u can't make it oh well enjoy the webcam lol. Don't stress yourself! I was stressed when people kept asking "Why don't u just have it in Boston?" Like dude, our families are big as hell, and I can't afford a 100+ wedding-Adios. I feel ur pain...I also hope that I make the 30 mark so that I can have all of the benefits...we'll see. Best of luck- screw everyone else as long as u and ur hubby are there nothing else matters.