Congratulations on your upcoming wedding Mandy! I just recently got married at the NOW Jade on May 25th, 2013. We were unsure of the locations as well since we had not been to the resort prior to the wedding. We had our ceremony at the Pergola and the reception at Castaways Restaurant. The pergola for us was a better choice just because it offered more privacy and you did not have to worry about going barefoot. We opted out of using the DJ at Castaways since my Husband wanted a live band instead. We ended up hiring the Tequilla Band through Pilar, they were amazing! I'm not sure where you heard that you cannot have a DJ at your reception, but you definitely have that option, especially with your wedding reception being at Castaway's. Hop this helps a little in your planning process Best of Luck! Lauren