Funny enough, FutureKeese, I have toyed with the idea of having my wedding on June 20th, which is also my birthday. If I have both our anniversary and my birthday on the same date, maybe Mike will stand a chance of remembering the date!! lol. Question: we were discussing our wedding last night and what we both want. He is ultra-casual and doesn't want a ton of wedding hoopla . . . while I love all the traditional wedding stuff! We worked out pretty much everything but are stuck when it comes to a reception or what to do after dinner. He would love to just head to the beach and hang out and have a few drinks - that idea is fine for me in theory, but I'm pretty sure the beach isn't lit at night and bonfires aren't allowed. I suggested heading to the bar nearest the beach, but our group includes quite a few kids (including my own stepchildren) and he had to remind me that kids probably aren't allowed in the bar!! lol. Any suggestions??