We also are NOT paying for travel expences of the wedding part because they are after all, get a pretty sweet vacation out of it as well! I am however thinking about paying for the dresses of my 3 bridesmaid as they are all relatively tight on cash, and that would be done in place of a bridesmaid gift. I will still problaby get something small, 20-30 dollar range for nice matching necklaces, but that will all also depend on weather the girls want to keep the dresses after or if I will be free to sell them... And they will also have the option of saving money on a hairdresser as my FI sister is a hairdresser and has offered to do our hair.