We are doing our wedding at SDML in Feb. 2011. We have planned it down to just meeting the minimum consumption fee of $4,000, with wedding, appetizers, dinner, dessert, open bar for 4.5 hours and rented out the whole bar area! If you need ideas, Leah email me if you want any ideas! We had to pay extra for our wedding planner, flowers (VERY minimum), music (we are playing our IPOD in the bar and hired a trio for an hour). We found our stay for $3,200 6 nights at the Riu Santa Fe... but we didn't want to get married there. Great place to stay though!
Can't wait! We have a fabulous wedding planner too.