That's a great deal. I am still trying to find my shoes; I already have my dress. You will look beautiful no matter what size you are. Everyone can't and shouldn't be a size 4. I know what you mean, some on my family is the same way. I want to slim down a bit for myself, not them. If I don't, then oh well, I know we are all going to look beautiful for our speacial day! BTW, I love retailmenot!