Congrats!
I was a maid of honor at a wedding Turks in 2008! Only 20 ppl went so we rented private beach front villas and she had dinner catered! she got married in a catholic church about 5 minutes away! it was amazing! The all inclusive resorts are very pricey so depends on what you are looking for?!
I am hoping to get married in aruba....still researching:)