cathyandchin

We used the Umbra Ether frame, filled it about halfway with our 3 colors of sand and then filled the rest with sand from the beach before we left. I had planned on carrying it on the plane but they wouldn't let me because of the glass so the agent at the AA ticket counter gave me a box and we taped it up and packed it in my checked bag. The sand didn't spill but it shifted a bit (even though we packed it down before we left). Â We used crystal clear caulk on the glass to seal it up.

We ended up getting 15 pics over the 50... so we paid $225. We justified it to ourselves by using wedding present money :-)

It's $15 per pic over 50 and they'll include it in the book and on the CD. They accept the same credit cards that the hotel does, you actually pay for all your stuff at the reception desk.

We had Anel, the gallery manager. She was so kind and took amazing photos. I also liked how she touched some up and put together the slideshow and included our song. http://web.mac.com/vallarta_adventures/SlideshowsDRERC/CARRERAS/

I had a very loose schedule, luckily all went according to plan. We met up for an informal gathering the night we got there and I gave them the OOT bags with the itinerary inside. A good idea is to get everyone's room numbers out to each other... it helps with communication. Â

 Hey Leanne!  --We did a symbolic ceremony. We didn't want to deal with the legalities and blood work. I put together my script from others' on the forum and googling things. I can send you a copy if you're interested. --We bought our sand ceremony frame from amazon. It's the umbra ether frame in espresso and we caulked the glass panes. The glass bottles with the sand were about a dollar a piece from Michael's. We didn't get these back --I'm not sure if we had the equipment for a certain amount of time, he just told us he had to pack up and go at that time. I've heard that you can keep partying until 11 or 1130. We were so hot and tired that it didn't matter. Some of us went to Desires afterwards. --No rehearsal. We didn't have a bridal party so it just didn't seem like a priority for us. In hindsight, I should've told my dad what to say. But it's better than he fumbled!!  Let me know if I can answer any more questions. [email protected]

  lol, you mean MONOgram?

Oceana & Seaside Grill are really busy around lunchtime because they are RIGHT NEXT to the infinity pool. They also don't start getting food out until around 11:30.

Oh yeah! Here is the slideshow from the resort photograpers http://web.mac.com/vallarta_adventures/SlideshowsDRERC/CARRERAS/

Okay, so here it is! The drive was only 20 minutes with 1 stop along the way. When we arrived at the hotel it was about 5pm and we were greeted warmly and the registration counter. Within a few minutes we were offered champagne and bottled water. I'm not sure if Ana called down or if they called her, but before I knew it they had handed me the phone and asked if we could meet around 630. We had gone with a garden view room (no upgrades) because we knew we weren't going to be spending much time in the room. Well, Ana had us moved to a honeymoon suite! This room is more spacious than the garden view, ocean view, or plunge pool rooms and it had a jacuzzi in the bathroom and also on the balcony. The view was AMAZING. We were in room 2201 and overlooked the palapas (hut looking thingys) at the southern edge of the property. VERY QUIET! My parents upgraded to an ocean view, but there wasn't much ocean to see. Other friends had the plunge pool room. This came in handy when he got a horrible sunburn and had to stay out of the sun for a few days. We would hang out with them and the waitstaff would come by to check on us. He tipped $20 and told her to come back every hour on the hour. She did. Although 5 of our rooms checked in at the same time, most of us weren't in the same area. This was fine because we were able to see more of the resort this way. All the rooms were gorgeous. We'd go back and stay in a garden room and be just fine with that. I think the plunge pool rooms are better for families with small children or if you want to be anti social... DINING: We ate at most of the restaurants. Our favorite was Oceana or the Seaside Grill. They both share the same kitchen and serve the same food. Our favorite meals here were: Tacos Pibil (pork filled street tacos), shrimp ceviche, NY strip steak (about 6-8oz), tuna tartare, and the shrimp tacos. World Cafe is the buffet restaurant that is open for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Not my favorite but there was always plenty of room to sit and a variety of food to make anybody happy. Himitsu is the Asian restaurant. They don't take reservations but have a wait list if they're full. It is also the only ala carte restaurant that will seat a large group together. The restaurant is tiny and there are only 2 tepanyaki grills that seat 8 people. Our friend got in line at 430 and the only available time for our group of 6 was at 9:20pm. If you eat at the grill there is no menu.. you pick shrimp or beef and they give you 3 little pieces of sushi. Sushi wasn't that great. Show wasn't that great. Shrimp and rice were DELICIOUS! Portofino is the Italian restaurant. It was only 4 of us that ate here but we still had to wait. No biggie, they give you a buzzer and we hung out in the lobby. We all tried something different and hands down the best entree was the shrimp and lobster anglioni. Also, we had desert and there was coffee ice cream that was the best!! Coco Cafe is the coffee shop. They do have soy milk but not always. Their frozen Baily's is yummy!! Room service IS 24 hrs but it's a limited menu. I could take it or leave it. During peak times its hard to get the room service to answer but usually I could get them by the 3rd try. Yes, it takes a while to get your food. Even if it's just water, but they let you know. DO NOT PREORDER ROOM SERVICE! We had them bring our breakfast and it was on time, but it wasn't very hot. So we tried again for the next day and I even asked them to make sure it was hot but it wasn't. Next time we'll call in early and then go back to sleep! BARS: The best drinks are in the lobby but it gets busy at times. There is NO PATRON! And they will bring you room temperature (i.e. HOT) shots of Cazadores if you don't specify. We all really liked chilled 1800 Silver. The best mojitos were also at the lobby bar. If you get a mixed drink they'll put in well liquor. Just be specific and ask for double shots. We like frozen lemonades with Absolut Citron. Manatees is the swim up bar and very busy! It does take a few mins to get a drink here when there are a lot of people swimming. We liked their Miami Vices, Watermelon Mojitos, Frozen Lemonades, and Mayan Rivieras. Long Island Iced Teas were NASTY!! The drinks at Barracuda were mediocre. But this is the cool swing bar and it's quiet over there so we didn't mind. SPA: We received a Swedish Massage for 2 and it was great. I also had my hair and makeup done here for the wedding and they did a great job. I was kind of concerned about the eye makeup being too heavy, but it looked great in the photos! FYI, don't buy the Sephora eyelashes. They started to come up at the corners and I ended up pulling them off. POOLS: Kinda warm but it's Mexico!! BEACH: Water was clear and kinda rocky in spots. It's hard to find a spot under a palapa because people claim them early even though you're not supposed to. There are PLENTY OF OTHER PLACES to grab a chair. There is seaweed. It's the ocean! When it rains there's more. They pick up the seaweed in the morning and throughout the day. Not often. And now for the juicy stuff!! At the meeting with Ana we picked out the canapes for our cocktail hour that we decided to have the night before the wedding. We went with the Mexican. We also picked out our menu and she let us choose from the silver and the gold menu. We went with the marble cake, too. We also picked our flowers from the book. We weren't super picky so we chose an orangy spread for the ceremony table and then a exotic bird of paradise for the dinner. They move the ceremony flowers to the dinner table afterwards. I also asked her about Laura's light blue sashes and she said that they didn't know where they were at. She showed me some turquoise but it didn't match and she listed the other colors (not very many, sorry I don't remember what she listed). She had brown satin so we used those at NO CHARGE. She asked if we had any other decorations and told me to bring those the next day along with the CD's. We did our own music and put it on playlists on my iPod and also burned separate CD's for each playlist. We asked about where we could have our reception at and she pulled up the menus for the week. It showed that Oceana was closed that day so we went with that instead of the deck or terrace. There are NO FANS in Oceana or Seaside Grill. I'm really glad we went with Oceana because it was near our ceremony site and perfect for our size. The deck and terrace would have been too big for our group of 22. COCKTAIL HOUR: We had our cocktail hour the night before the ceremony at Desires with the Mexican Trio and the Mexican canapes. OMG, the food was so good! I'm glad we did it this way because it was more than enough food for us and we would've missed out on this because we would've been doing our wedding pictures. WEDDING & RECEPTION: We had our ceremony on the beach around 6pm. They do the ceremonies on the north side of the property. Yes, people will watch. It's A LOT LESS people watching here than doing it at the gazebo that is right next to the infinity pool. Ana had everyone meet at Rendezvous 30 mins before the ceremony and then she or Yazmin walked them to the site. Around this time was when Anel, the photographer, came up to my room and started taking pictures. Ana came to get us around 6 and off we went! For some reason there were not enough seats... Not sure what happened here but maybe I gave the wrong number?? Not a big deal because several of our guests were taking pictuers. We had them place our ceremony program and fans on the seats. I had emailed our script weeks ago and it seemed like our officiant hadn't rehearsed. Her English was okay but she mispronounced my name a few times: CATHY. The technician had our music perfectly! If you want a copy of our playlist, just let me know. Since dinner wasn't until 7:30 because the restaurant had to prepare we used this time to take pics. Our guests were drinking champagne and snapping pics all the way up until dinner time. We had the most beautiful light!! I went with the pink roses (they have all colors) for the boquet and we ended up with a pink sunset... it was amazing! Our reception was at the Oceana restaurant which is on the north edge of the infinity pool. We were able to have it here because it was closed for the night. Since we had a small party we were able to have a 4 course meal with desert and it was all really good! Appetizer: Tropical Martini shrimp cocktail served with brunoise of Avocado (from Ultimate menu) Salad: Spinach salad served with duck confie and balsam vinaigrette (from Ultimate menu) Soup: Cream of broccoli with parmesan cheese (From Ultimate menu) Entree: Filet mignon filed with vegetable julienne served in red wine sauce (from Ultimate menu) Desert: Tulip of strawberry with grand Marnier sauce and ice vanilla ice cream (From Love menu) Everyone's favorite was the cream of broccoli soup. Yeah, I know. But even the kids liked it!! We had music for the dinner and it wasn't too loud so it was perfect. The technician didn't speak English but that was fine. We got to use the mic and after dinner was over we asked everyone to share a funny or embarassing moment about one of us. Our friends didn't disappoint. My only complaint was that the staff was taking a tiny bit too long in between courses so it ran in to our 2 hour reception. I had so much music ready and had spend hours getting the song order but we ended up just having about 45 mins because the tech had to tear down at 10:30 We had the marble cake covered in fondant brought out after dinner. We ended up having a HUGE cake fight but I did get to try the cake and it was really good, lol! They had brought us a simple cake cutter but we were all too full by then to eat it. At the end of the night we went up to our room, and I had left our iPod on the dock with some love songs playing softly but the resort staff had left an extra suprise for us OTHER NOTES: Ana had already made my hair and makeup appointment (she had suggested 2pm on the contract). Chin had to call the afternoon before the wedding so he could check into his own room. We figured it'd be a garden view but it had a plunge pool! He had to check out at 1pm the day of the wedding but then he got ready in his friend's room. That morning he called me and told me that room service had brought him champagne and strawberries! I got nothing. LMAO Ana told us we'd have to set up our spa appointment ourselves and contact concierge about our romantic dinner and breakfast. We paid for our wedding using 2 bank cards (make sure you contact your bank before you leave so the charges won't be declined). I had also left our sand ceremony frame at the beach but that was brought up to Ana's office and we got that along with our DVD. The DVD was great, our videographer asked me what songs I used so he could edit them in but I just gave him the CDs we used for our Prelude & Ceremony. There was small reception next to Oceana... they actually set up a platform over the little pool! Eh... Not a lot of room. I also saw a reception on the deck and it was buffet, but no where to hang up stuff... Another reception on the beach on the south end of the resort. Looked like a lot of fun!! Saw a wedding at the gazebo around 6. There were still plenty of people at the pool and just feet away! If you want privacy, opt for the beach. Misc: Some of us got sick. Nothing serious, but I think it was a combination of too much sun, too much booze, and too much food. TAKE SUPER HIGH SUNBLOCK!! The sun in no joke down there and most people don't put on enough sunblock. We took Nutrogena Sport 75 and used up the whole bottle but neither one of us got burnt at all. One of our friends was super red and another ended up with 2nd degree burns. My BIL threw up twice but we all ate the same food so we think it was just too much of everything. Doesn't hurt to take some Immodium. During our night of shot taking I left behind a Coach wristlet in the lobby. By the time I realized it I was at the Desires Lounge and ran back to the lobby, where it was empty. One of the concierges sees me in my rush and he had it in his hand! We had a romantic dinner on the beach. There are only a limited number of spots so you have to call early a day in advance. Originally I wanted something around 730 to enjoy the sunset but all they had was 630. We were seated on the beach and there were only 3 other spots but those people didn't get there until at least an hour later and then an hour after that. 630 was perfect because the sunset was around 7ish and it was beautiful. No menu here, when we made the reservation we were asked about food allergies and how we wanted our meat cooked. The dinner was salad, New England style clam chowder, filet mignon, and strawberry/mango canolis. DELICIOUS!! Once again, I left behind something. The next morning I realized that I had left behind my Gucci sunglasses. I spoke to concierge and they had them!! The lobby is the the most beautiful area in the hotel but we think it's the hottest place in Mexico. I'm talking heat here. For some reason it just doesn't get enough airflow!! There was a woman that sang a few nights and she was fantastic. She sang a lot of Mariah, Celene, and Whitney. Make sure you look at the flags on the beach. White means jellyfish and we did get stung. The lifeguard was off duty but one of the staff members helped and brought us vinegar. OVERALL: Our package includes free anniversary nights so make sure you talk to Ana about that because she has to sign a certificate. We are planning to return for our anniversary and our family and friends can't wait to come back! The pictures on their website are totally accurate. Everyone raved about the place, including our friends and their parents that have stayed at Atlantis in the Bahamas!! We didn't use the Explorers' Club for the kids but there weren't kids running around the place either. I don't know if I'd bring kids during the high season, but that's just me. I cried when we had to leave!! I hope I touched on everything... It really was the most amazing time. The hotel is amazing and the ceremony was exactly what I could've asked for.

Don't worry about the lighting. The lights they put up are plenty bright. Plus there's lighting from the pools too.

Im 99% sure There isnt anywhere to hang lanterns unless you have them put a string from lights to lights. They set up four stands with one bright light on each at the corners of your area. It's the same thing on the beach, too.

Just got back from our FABULOUS wedding and honeymoon at DRC! I will work on my review with pics and planning tomorrow. It was the best week of our lives, SERIOUSLY!! Cathy

I don't remember seeing a place to hang lights. We saw a reception there and with the lights they set up it's pretty well lit. I think if you still put them up, the other bright lights will obscure them.

No pics of the cake cutter/server. It was your run of the mill, plain old sterling silver.

Quote: Originally Posted by Boo Silly Question - Ana said they have a cake cutting knife, serving thing set, has anyone used it? I thought of buying our own but if I have one less thing to worry about might be nice - Ana however didnt describe at all, nor does she have pictures of it. Have previous brides used this? We're planning to use it. I'll try to get some pics.

Quote: Originally Posted by allegraapple Mmm. For some reason, I thought everything ($$) was due two days before the wedding. But, maybe I'm wrong. Would make more sense to pay after - just to make sure everything goes as planned. I have CONFIRMED with Ivan (from Doremixx) the pricing for the setup for a slideshow. However, I should clarify - we have a large group coming and we wanted to have something organized the night before the wedding. So we are going to do Karaoke for a few hours (which we'll be using Doremixx for) and he'll also bring stuff to set up a slideshow (for the extra fee I quoted earlier). If you wanted to do the slideshow during your reception or something, I'm sure he could work that out and I would imagine at the same price he quoted for us. Two days is what I thought too. Our thing is that we have part of the money in our account and the rest is my parents' so we didn't know if we need to bring cash, a check, or just our cards. Our meeting with her is 2 days before the wedding and that's when we finalize our flowers, food, and cake. Laura mentioned that she left her chair sashes, I'm hoping to use those. And then I'll go with the white fabric on the chuppah.

Quote: Originally Posted by AlisonJimmy Cathy...so you really had to contact her? She didn't email you asking for your final count? We are leaving August 4 for Aug 8 wedding. So, hoping to hear from her. I am so excited for you. What package are you going with? We originally wanted the ultimate but now I am not sure if we need it. We're so excited! I can't even sleep in because I wake up thinking: ONE DAY CLOSER TO MEXICO! We are going with the Ultimate package. I really wanted mariachis and other places charged too much. Plus, since a lot of our family is unable to come we like the fact that we get a videographer. I emailed her because I was tired of waiting and I figured that by the time I got a reply from her it would be closer to the wedding when I'd be more stressed out so I was really surprised she got back to me so quickly. But this time I figured that she is super busy to reply promptly because she's busy with the weddings of that week. Well... I'M THIS WEEK! lol, just keep emailing her.

Does anyone know if the dress code is enforced for children? My TA and I can't get a straight answer from anyone about this. Also, does anyone know how you pay Ana for the wedding?? p.s. Some friends of ours got to DRC today and sent us a text. It said word for word: DUDE! THIS PLACE ROCKS! IT'S THE BEST PLACE WE'VE EVER BEEN TO!! I started jumping up and down in the kitchen and got all misty eyed.

Quote: Originally Posted by AlisonJimmy Ladies I am getting worried...my wedding is in 2 weeks from today and Ana has not contacted me at all lately. When does she usually get in touch to find out your final count and all that? I'm getting married this week and I hit her up a week ago and she got right back to me. Now, I emailed her last night with my final count and a few other questions: ~how do we pay? ~can I get a new copy of the contract with changes? ~did you make the salon appointment for me? I would think I'd get an answer tomorrow night at the latest, seeing as how we have a meeting set up for 8pm on Tuesday!

We leave on Tuesday!! I finally almost finished the Welcome Books. It's been an effing nightmare to get pictures of my guests!! Thank goodness for Facebook because that's where I ended up getting most of my guests' pictures! We're already packed. I was freaking out because I wasn't sure about the stuff I'm taking fitting since I'm down a carry on due to the dress. I've got to scan and print the receipts for the stuff I bought. My guestbook is done. It will end up being part of our wedding scrapbook so I'm glad we're doing it this way (pages full of envelopes where our guests will write notes, well wishes, advice, etc.). Tags on OOT bags are printed and tied. My fabric pomander for my flowergirl is done. Ribbons tied on bubbles. Mint matchbooks assembled. Ribbons tied on fans. Programs printed and packed. Sand Ceremony Frame glued and sand packed in baggies. Bottles wrapped and packed in suitcase. I had my makeup done at Sephora and took pictures. Bought my lingerie and found the I DO Hanky Panky's at Nordstroms. ~Tomorrow I'm getting my Brazilian wax & nails done. ~Monday eyebrows threaded. ~Pack veil with dress (I keep thinking I'm going to forget it) WOW, I'll be so glad when this is over!! I'm ready to relax on the beach with an icy cold alcoholic beverage!!

Quote: Originally Posted by AlisonJimmy LOL...that's a good idea! Mine is exactly the same times as yours. Ceremony is at 6...so are you seeing your fiance before to take pictures? We have to or we will miss cocktail at 7. I hate that so much!! Really wanted to see him for the first time when I was walking down the aisle. My FI doesn't want to see me until I walk down the aisle! I talked to the photographer about the amount of light and they said they'd come back to do full daylight shots!! Why don't you move the cocktail? Maybe you could do it for your guests before the ceremony (but then you'd still miss it) because there will be food then and then a full dinner spread! IDK, just a thought. You could always move it to another night like we did...

Quote: Originally Posted by AlisonJimmy I think you're right Boo. I think it is 10 pm. But that really stinks...my reception begins at 8...so how can i only have the DJ for 2 hours. I am getting all confused and my wedding is in two weeks! I think it's 11 also. When I first got my contract it said that the ceremony was 6, cocktail hour 7-8, dinner and reception 8-11. We ended up moving our cocktail hour to the day before and then starting dinner at 7 so our reception goes until 10. I just cant imagine eating dinner at 8 when I've spent the whole day getting ready... I'd pass out!!

Quote: Originally Posted by Laura22610 I also left chair sashes - I left about 75 of them - they are light blue I would really hope that they wouldn't charge you to use them!!!! Oh, Laura! My colors are light blue and chocolate... I'm sooo going to hit up Ana next week when I get there. Quote: I flew on Continental. I called them before I left and they said arrangements had to be made once we were at the gate. They said that they didn't have a closet for me to hang my dress in so I put it in the overhead compartment. Luckily, everyone was respectful and didn't put any of their luggage on top of it. Although, I wouldn't have let them anyway But my dress was fine!! I'm flying AA and they said the same thing. She suggested I go to the ticketing counter sometime before I leave and show them the dress to see what they say. I don't mind folding my dress since I'll be getting it steamed there. But my flight is full and I'd hope no one one give me dirty looks...

Quote: Originally Posted by Norma83 Oh, that's a toughy! I would maybe just start doing process of elimination and see which type of music you have the most and then cut some out OR if all else fails just flip a coin! LOL Since it's a list of all of your favorite music already, I'm sure the 2 hour list you come up with will be just as great. Sorry I'm not much help! Thanks Norma. I think I might just flip the coin... since it's all my favorite anyways. You've given me the confidence boost I needed, you rock! Must be a Dallas thing I think, lol! Cathy