My biggest stress factor is trying to stay focused with having a simple, low-key wedding. Sometimes when I start reading threads, it is easy to get caught up in the 'oh, I've got to have: chair sashes, fans, aisle petals, favors for the table, guest book, etc...'
So, I have decided to forgo a few of the items mentioned above. I have to stay focused and remember that I want a simple yet beautiful wedding. I think it is very possible with a ocean backdrop.
Vday, I understand. It is for that reason that I didn't even send RSVP's. I know who booked through the resort. Some folks may intend on coming and may send RSVP's but what really matters is if you put $$ down for a reservation.