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  1. I haven't been so active here anymore, since my destination wedding had to be canceled and re-planned back at home. I figured I would post some pics for those who have been following my planning drama. I only have a few from friends so far, but they will be getting updated daily, and at some point the pro photos will be on this link too. The favorites tab has the good ones. The "guest photo" section is probably a little boring, since they came from some of the guests, and they are mostly of them taking pictures of each other at the table.

    Bella Pictures : Rizzo Caracappa : Christina Rizzo

  2. Just an update...The wedding was last night and it was amazing!!! (with the exception of my dress. I had major back fat and am hoping pics come out ok) Everyone kept telling us that the best part of a wedding is the cocktail hour and the mingling, and basically our entire wedding was that! Also that it felt like it was really long (in a good way) because we didn't do any of the "wedding" stuff, so the fun never stopped. The food was ridiculous good and the venue was incredible. If you know anyone who is looking for a venue in NJ, Clark's Landing is incredible!

  3. Quote:
    Originally Posted by mwcfarms View Post
    I wish these retailers would ship to Canada. I found a similar dress on Davids Bridal for 99$ but they don't ship to Canada sad.gif Great find, dont regret it and do the TTD. Its your day and you should bleed the experience dry so to speak. Good luck.
    I checked the site out for you, and they actually do ship to Canada. It's $24 to ship. I found a coupon code that will save you almost that much, so it's like getting free shipping!
    http://www.mommysavesbig.com/printab.../jc-penney.pdf
    and if that doesn't work, then this one...
    15% off any online purchase (exclusions apply), coupon code SEPSURV9 expires 10/1/09
  4. Quote:
    Originally Posted by mummergirl View Post
    omg your wedding is HERE! are you flipping out with excitement?!?!
    I haven't had the time to be excited yet! I just had my friends wedding yesterday I was her Maid of Honor (which should really be called wedding slave.) So I haven't had a chance to think about my wedding yet! This week is gonna be crazy...
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    Originally Posted by Jtswedding View Post
    I'm really sad that I didn't take my legal day more seriously. I was in normal cloths and so was FI. He took the morning off of work after we went to the court house waited in line, got married, kissed and went to the dounkin donuts around the corner, then went on about our day.

    This is the way I wanted it because I wanted our "real" wedding to be the only one that was important. Now it makes me sad that we didn't celebrate at all. It feels to anticlimactic.

    Anyone think of a cute "redo" idea
    Don't feel bad about that. We did the same exact thing. Well, actually nobody at all knows that we did the courthouse thing at all! ( We did it early for insurance purposes.) We did it like you did because we wanted to make sure it didn't feel like a wedding at all. That way it wouldn't take away from the real wedding. I bet that once you have your actual wedding, you won't regret your decision.
  6. I wish I had the time! I'm DVR-ing it right now. I am maid of honor in my best friend's wedding Saturday, have her rehearsal dinner tomorrow, and my wedding next Friday. Then we all leave for Bermuda on Sunday. Meanwhile I have a butt load of school work and tests to do before I go!!!! What am I doing on BDW? Ugh...off to do accounting and a fashion research project (blah.)

  7. I was asking if you saw it because it is very disappointing in person. I was also in love with that dress, but up close it looks very poorly constructed. The organza flowers were all unraveled and frayed. They had just gotten it in too, so its not like it was that way from being handled a lot. I would definitely not buy it unless you see it first. Sorry to bust your bubble, but I would hate to buy a dress and be disappointed.

  8. No, I need to cancel my appointment. He wants nothing to do with it. I'm kinda upset about it, because its a once in a lifetime opportunity. But at the same time I understand his concerns. What if it DOES ruin our wedding by making us and the guests uncomfortable. I would never live that one down (or forgive myself for ruining my wedding.) I can't wait to see the show though. I hope I don't kick myself when it does come on, and wish I had done it.

  9. Ugh. FI wants nothing to do with this and he is refusing to participate. Just my luck. I beat the odds and get chosen and he doesn't want to do it. I am still working on him though. I have to call and ask more questions tomorrow about it. He is afraid it will add too much stress for us, and make our guests uncomfortable. I have told a pretty good amount of people (all of which are guests) and they are all excited about the idea. I guess I will have to see what they say tomorrow about how intrusive they are at the reception and perhaps I will sway FI to go for it.

  10. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Vikki View Post
    Is there someone we can spam to say we want you to get picked? :-)
    OMG I wish! I am trying to convince FI to do it. He's saying that all they want are trainwreck brides and we will look stupid. It's totally not that kind of show at all. They said it's nothing like Bridezillas, and they don't interfere with your wedding at all. Lets see what happens on Friday!
  11. So I filled this out on a whim, and actually got called! Because they are looking for a "beach" bride, and someone with a unique story (as you may know, mine definitely is,) she said my chances are very good of being picked. I have an appointment on Friday to meet with TLC to find out! Yayyyyyyyyyyyy! Something may actually be going right with my wedding!

     

     

    The details are in my previous post...

    http://bestdestinationwedding.com/forum/t49313

  12. My best friend had an invite situation just last week. Her awful FMIL mailed out invites for her rehearsal dinner. They were awful. Like dollar store, fill in the blank kind. Nowhere on the invite did she write the bride and groom's name, so if you were involved in more than 1 wedding, you would have no clue who the rehearsal was for. And the best part was that she only put the time and place of the restaurant, which obviously happens AFTER the rehearsal at the church. Nowhere on there does it mention the church. My friend even made sure that she told FMIL about the time to meet at the church, and to make sure it was clearly written on the invite. My friend had to go and make brand new invites the next day, and got tons of calls asking why 2 separate invites went out. Can you believe her FMIL had the nerve to be pissed off about her sending out new invites! The whole point of the rehearsal dinner is to REHEARSE the wedding at the church! I guess my point is, sometimes you need to do things regardless of the drama it may cause. After all it IS your wedding, and you want your guests to show up. How can that happen if they can't even be sure that the invite is correct.

  13. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Jo&Daz 20-10-2010 View Post
    no way! a wedding is your day to do what-ever-the-hell-you-want!

    I've been to wedding before, and had such a great time that I didn't even realise they didn't do certain traditional elements. Not until the next day when mum asked who caught the bouquet! It was such a blast - and really reflected the couple.

    I think its awful when the wedding doesn't reflect the couple. Some friends of ours are very very laid back couple, been engageged for 5 years, bbq and beers friends, and at the request of parents had a really really formal wedding - and they just looked uncomfortable! and it made the guests uncomfortable too.

    I think there is nothing better at a wedding than seeing the bride and groom have an absolute blast!

    Actually I think you have inspired me to cut some things too! I never even thought to cutting the first dance. we like dancing together, but are the WORST dancers in the world - we would much rather have a quietintimate moment with each other dancing then having everyone staring! :)

    You go girl!

    Who knows where I'll stop now! No cake! :)
    Well, we actually have 2 wedding songs. The first is Bob Marley "Is this Love." They will be playing it when we walk back up the aisle together after the ceremony. The second is Adele "Make you Feel my Love." We are going to have the DJ start playing it, and announce that the bride and groom would like everyone to join in as they dance to their wedding song. This way everyone is already on the dance floor and basically already up dancing. That way we aren't out there alone with everyone gawking at us. I hate the thought of that. We are still doing the cake and cake cutting. If anyone knows me well, they know that I am all about the cake at a wedding! My thought is that I don't want the party (and dancing) to stop, and I don't ant all those things breaking up the night. I just didn't know how well that would go over, since so many people expect those "wedding" things to happen.
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