stefnicole

I'm glad they were caught!

Quote: Originally Posted by SgtPepperette Wow, you really are my twin! Well, I've always wanted a twin!

I'm gettin married on Kauai also! We started off with family only, then opened it up to close friends too. We're planning on a beach ceremony on the south shore, maybe on Poipu Beach or Shipwreck beach. We're not staying at a resort though. We'll be renting condos, so I don't have any advice on places to stay. We're having the informal reception when we get back too! Hmmm...you must be my twin to have so much in common Welcome!

Quote: Originally Posted by starchild Hmmm...etiquette probably says you don't really have a say in the +1 of an invited guest. Realistically if it were me and I didn't like the +1 I wouldn't want the person there either. But I didn't put + 1 on the card. I haven't even sent our formal invitations yet, just a STD card, but she RSVP'ed on the website. Becks, do you regret that you caved in and let them come?

UPDATE ON PAGE 2!! So, my mom rsvp'd with her and her boyfriend (who wasn't invited). Now, this guy is the same guy she's been with off and on since I was about 11. I don't particularly care for him. He's the reason my mom had to declare bankruptcy and lost her custody of my brother and I (we moved in with my dad). When she moved a couple years ago, I found out later it was to be with him, but she never told us they were together and I found out by accident over a year later. Now, I know I'm being childish and I should give up my grudge, BUT I can't! I just don't want him at my wedding, which is why I didn't invite him. I guess I can accept that they're using my wedding as an excuse for a vacation but I don't want him even in my eyesight. No one else in my family likes him either, so it'll be pretty akward if he's around. What do I do? Tell her I don't want him at any "wedding" activities? She's gonna get offended and I'm not sure I want to deal with it. We've had issues over the years but I thought we were finally doing okay. Do I just ignore it? I'm being selfish, aren't I?

This just reaffirms my decision on not having a bridal party. Much less stress

Quote: Originally Posted by LC_Rachel Well crap, I just adviced to make sure they weren't stupid and stand in the wrong order or forget to pack undies. This is WAY beyond stupidity. Here's my problem with people in general. Not just annoying wedding guests and stupid bridal parties. People tend to say "ya sure! I'll be there" but not really stick by what they said. Flakiness is all to common and it's just downright ridiculous. There is no excuse for it. If you saying you are going to do something, then F*ing do it! Unfortunately, the time we get to learn this lesson the hardest is during our weddings. The way people really are becomes apparent really quick! Now, there is a huge difference of telling you first, sure they would like to go and then changing their song a year ahead of time. YOU LEAVE IN A MONTH! I know I wouldn't have $4000 sitting around to cover this expense. I hope you make it well known how much it's costing you because that is ridiculous. At this point, they need to suck it up and whip out their F*ing CC. Sorry- this crap makes me irate. I deal with flakiness all the time from a couple of my friends and at any level, it's not ok. Do what you say you are going to do! Period! I couldn't have said it better myself!

Welcome and congratulations!

HOLY CRAP!! I'm so excited to see I'm not the only short one, 5ft (technically 4ft and 11 and 3/4 inches). On a more serious note, I'm planning a barefoot beach ceremony as well, and I'd love any more advice you all have.

Here's mine!

I like them. They're very unique. Two thumbs up!

Thanks for posting this Morgan. I'll definitely be referring back to this in the future!

Quote: Originally Posted by Lilpaisley and congrats. I know how you feel. FI and I picked out the ring together. He then had the ring in a box on his desk forever. I could see the box everyday it drove me nuts. I think he did it just to tease me.Everytime we made plans to go to dinner, meet friends, anything...I would think "is this it?" It was hard, but really fun at the same time. Good luck and I hope it happens soon. Bryce was the same! Except he had it hidden and used to taunt me with it. "Wanna see the ring? Oh, no wait, just kidding!" or "It's hidden somewhere in my closet if you want to look." He picked out the ring all by himself so I was doubly excited to see it!

Congratulations and happy planning!

Jtds2713 August 7, 2008 Oahu, HI Twinkiez August 8, 2008 Oahu, Hawaii Waialae Beach azhuskergirl August 28, 2008 Kapalua Bay, Maui, HI Alyssa September 5th, 2008 Kona, Big Island, HI CTHawaii14 September 12, 2008 Oahu, HI Sherry October 4, 2008 Wailea, Maui, HI Chiquita November 5th, 2008 Maui, HI Pisces (Jenn) December 30, 2008 Wailea, Maui, HI Tammy Jan. 13, 2009 Maui Stephanie (stefnicole) May 29, 2009 Kauai, HI

You guys look so happy!

Quote: I also had the mini little air freshner spray things, and I know I found mine really handy, we used it several times for the washroom after somebody took a smelly poop HAHAHAHA!!!

Spinach-artichoke dip? I LOVE this!

Well, hello there! How lovely to meet you.

Thanks! These will be really helpful!

They look awesome! I love the pink!

Thanks Kristie!!

Like everyone else said, welcome!!

Can anyone recommend a photographer from Kauai? I've been looking around at a few but it's a bit overwhelming. Our wedding is going to be pretty informal, on the beach actually. Any suggestions? -Stephanie

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