Quote: Originally Posted by Mandy Make a list of about 3-4 people (like maybe your parents) who absolutely HAVE to be there, and as long as they can make it, don't give it another thought. Great advice Mandy. Once you change your date to accomodate one person who is not a crucial part of the day (like not the bride/groom or immediate family) then it is a slippery slope. the reality is that not everyone will be able to make it and that is ok. as long as you and your FH are married in the place you want to be married nothing else matters. Good luck!!!