Here is how I feel about invitations. When I think about sending them out I want them to be the best my guests have ever gotten. When I reflect upon all the invitations I have received over the years I remember how nice they were but have never SAVED any. I am not saying they are not important but remember the reason you are going. YOU AND HIM. Good Luck, but in my opinion, don't stress too much, remember- STDs and Invitations are just information to get you and your guests where you want them want to be. Those who are truely important will be there.