Thanks everyone for your support. Bouncikat, The one I am thinking about is Paradise Cove, that is also where the ceremony is held. I don't really mind about speeches and stuff, we can always do that at the dinner the night before. The cake I am going to have right after the ceremony and before the luau, like a mini reception at the actual ceremony site with cake and champagne! Since you basically grew up on Oahu, do you have any advice or suggestions for me, hotels, places to eat...etc. I was trying to have a private luau, but I couldn't find a company that would do it for such a small guest list, unfortunately. Anyway...any information would be great. Are honeymoon will be in Kauai!!!