FI and I just had ours on Saturday night...he ended up not going to the strip club, im pretty sure all the guys wanted to though but he said it was his night and it wasnt his thing. I wouldnt of cared if he went, im suprised my FFIL didnt force him..lol FI has told me that they do whip the future groom for their bachalor night...that must not feel good, poor bottom!