Jessica

I'm sorry you didn't get into the first program you applied for. Good luck with getting into the other one.

They seemed mafioso in the previews. It's funny. So typically Jersey I love it. WTF, I want to live in a freakin McMansion!

Oh yuck. I just hope they don't reproduce. They'll probably have camera crews to film that and I don't think I could stand seeing the miracle of birth featuring Heidi's weird hand movements with every contraction.

Quote: Originally Posted by yamille Kelly is an outrage. That converssation that she had with Bethany was nuts and she came off really bad. Ramona reminds me of a hyper chihuahua. ifeel bad for her sweet daughter Luann is out of control with her snobbery. The countess this.. the countess that. I heart Jill. She makes me laugh and her and Bobby remind me of so many parents that I knew on Long Island. I feel like she has a good heart I almost forgot about that whole crazy Kelly scenerio. WTF was that all about?! What a biatch! I do think Jill has a good heart. She can be a little overbearing sometimes, but she doesn't seem malicious or mean at all.

Aiden isn't baptized. I don't plan to intentionally raise him as agnostic, but by default that and scientific theory will be what he is initially and mainly exposed to. But he will be exposed to other religions and lifestyles the same way that anyone else is, through socialization. I have friends who are Catholic, Jewish, Atheist, Wiccan, etc. When he's old enough to ask why we don't go to church, temple etc. I will be open with him and also give him to the option of attending a mass/service/whatever and I have no trouble going with him. I don't mind being exposed to various religions via informative teaching. I actually really love learning about religion despite my agnostic beliefs and have a bunch of books on different religions and took a couple of classes on religion in college.

Quote: Originally Posted by GinalynL I didn't really like how the bartender told Heidi that Spencer was being a bad boyfriend and then she turned around and told Spencer that Heidi was crazy. How could the bartender like Spencer? Gross! Ditto. She is sketchy. I mean, Spencer isn't totally flat out fugly, but I don't find him attractive at all. He has this crazy eye look too that totally creeps me out.

I usually wear dresses to formal events even though I'm not a big dress girl myself, but I think you could probably get away with the outfit you described. Have fun!!

Happy Birthday pretty lady!

I love the Real Housewives of NYC. I didn't really care for it much last season, but I am enjoying this season a lot. Bethanny is hysterical, Kelly is annoying, LuAnn is a SNOB to the extreme, Ramona is a shit stirrer and Jill is so funny with her NY accent. I'm interested to see the NJ one.

That's cute that he was so excited. See, all it took was him finding an awesome bargain to get into the whole wedding thing!

That"s an awesome gift! Those munchkins are adorable!

I've considered myself agnostic since I was 13. I do however enjoy paganism, but I wouldn't consider myself a pagan.

That sucks Carly. I wonder what the hell happened? Hope you figure it out soon, sounds annoying. Have you tried changing the background image completely?

I love, love, LOVE Pinup pictures. This is totally a style I would like to do. I'll have to bookmark the site and keep it in mind. Thanks.

Do you have XP? Try: Right Click on My Computer in Start Menu > Click on Properties > Advanced tab > Settings (in the Performance section) > Turn on the Use drop shadows for icon labels on the desktop option > Click Ok.

----------------------GENERAL INFO---------------------- Birthday: March 14th Astrological Sign: Pisces Color of eyes: Brown Hair: Brown Shoe size: 8.5 Brothers/Sisters: One younger brother Who lives with you? A husband, a toddler and a dog When is your bedtime? 12a workdays, 2am non-workdays What town (or area) do you live in: Burlington Township, NJ Favorite Sport: Tonsil hockey Number of Tattoos: 3 (or 2 since two of them I merged together) Number of Piercings: 2 (1x each ear) Birthmarks? 0 -----------------HAVE YOU EVER----------------------- Been so drunk you blacked out: Nope and I'd never want to. Missed work because it was raining: uh...no, but that's a good idea! Been in a car accident? Yes Kept a secret from everyone: Yes Had an imaginary friend: Yeah... and I think she ditched me! Cried during a movie: Totally, I'm a sap. Had a crush on a teacher: No, I've never had any hot teachers. Ever thought an animated character was hot: I gotta say that's kinda weird. Been on stage: Yes Been sarcastic: Me?! Never! Where do you go to school at: The School of Hard Knocks ----------------------FAVORITES-------------------- Shampoo: Right now I'm all about Suave Tea Therapy Shampoo Soap: I don't do soap, I'm an oatmeal body wash kind of girl Color: Hot Pink Day or Night: Night Summer or winter: Summer Commercial: Flirty Girl Fitness TV Show: Amazing Race Ice Cream: Rocky Road Drink: Cranberry and Vodka Childrens' Book: Alice in Wonderland Cartoon: Beverly Hills Teens Food: Mexican Day of the week: Saturday Word: Awesome Cookie: Oatmeal raisin Cake: Chocolate w/ buttercream vanilla frosting ---------------RANDOM QUESTIONS------------- If you could build a house anywhere, where would it be? On a tropcal island somewhere in the Caribbean What is your favorite article of clothing? Jeans Favorite physical feature of the opposite sex? A nice mouth Favorite nonphysical feature of the opposite sex? I like free-spirits The last CD you bought? I haven't bought a cd in forever. Where's your least favorite place to be? School Where's your favorite spot to be massaged? G-spot What's your favorite kitchen appliance? The microwave What makes you really angry? People who don't listen If you could play an instrument, what would it be? Drums Which do you prefer: sports car or SUV? sports car, perferably old school muscle cars. If you could have one super power, what would it be? I wanna be invisible Can you juggle? I can juggle boys... or at least I used to.

I'm glad you heard from her, but I agree it does sound sketchy. I hope she is ok... keep us posted on this whole situation.

I worked briefly for DYFS (which is NJ's Department of Youth and Family Services). Honestly, it wasn't for me. I'm getting my Master's in Counseling in May so I am going to continue to work in the helping profression and I am planning to work with children, adolescents and familes AND I know I will continue to confront clients in hard situations. That part I am fine with, but the job just wore me out. Case Workers are so overloaded and burnout comes quickly. I do think it's a good thing that you are so empathic when dealing with your clients. I think for some people in the field it's easy to become so jaded and desensitized to client situations just because you see it on a daily basis. You have to compartmentalize it all to a certain degree because you don't want to bring it home with you, but you also don't want to go so far that you remove all empathy and become robotic and detached on the job. I think a lot of these clients are so used to case workers who are just cold.. imagine how comforting it must be for them to meet someone who does actually care. I think it's a good trait that you can bring to the table. Hang in there Bianca. It can certainly be a rewarding job, but it can also be very demanding and overwhelming. Just don't forget to take care of yourself to prevent burnout.

I'm a little late on this Calia, but I can definitely see why you would be concerned. That is very odd. You're awesome for going over there and checking up on her. Please let us know what you find out!

They do look a lot alike. I'm not a big fan of Katy just because I don't listen to that type of music, but I love me some Zooey. She's awesome.

Interesting. I'll keep an eye on it. Thanks.

I'm going to start a website called helpmepayformylife.com You can start sending in your donations now. Thanks.

Ah, Laura! Don't second guess yourself now! We ran into that same issue. When we finally (after much debate) picked a name we both liked for Aiden, I suddenly started seeing the name everywhere and learned that it was like the #1 name in the US. I swear, I only ever heard of that name once beforehand, but apparently I was living in a bubble. But we decided to stick with it because we loved it despite the popularity. I LOVE the name Ethan. I totally vote that you should keep it. I gotta admit, the name Benton doesn't do it for me. But it's up to you guys. Would you guys be up for waiting until he's actually born? Maybe once you see him it'll be apparent if he's an "Ethan" or a "Benton"?

He has a man crush on some Boston Red Sox player who's name I can't think of at the moment. He's obsessed with the Red Sox.

I know! I can't wait to see it.