Possible family conflict with wedding date?

Keep your plans and let him work around you! he can always, IF his plans even become legit, have his wedding at a resort near yours the week before or after your wedding. People who want to go to both can overlap their vacations, but that's his problem to figure out not yours:)

I too say keep your plans. If he knows your date is already set, why in the hell would he want to schedule his wedding 1 month before yours?

Also, your plans are already made, his are "in the making". Why rearrange your plans for something thats still an "idea"?

Lets say you changed your date just to avoid the conflict of his "potential" date & for whatever reason his plans fall through? Then you did all of that for nothing & you could've kept your original date! I say he better consider himself lucky that you're even thinking about this and go about his merry way with a date after yours!

oh and also-----

i advise you not allow there to be a DW of yours and his within the same week. if you want to know why, just ask betsy and search for her threads about her FSIL who invited herself to have her DW the same weekend as her DW at the same resort.

I say no stick with your date and tell him to figure something else out. I had a friend who changed their DW to the same month and year as mine. When I told her I wouldn't move mine cause that is what worked for us then she compromised and now she is getting married in the DR also.

Trust me from personal experience, you were engaged first, so you get dibs.

I agree to get your STDs out soon and your web-site up and running!

I say do what you want to do without regards to your cousin. It is your wedding and you should have it when YOU and YOUR FI feels its convenient for YOU not anyone else.

Have your wedding whenever YOU want. It's not your fault that he wants a DW, too, that he is being a whiner, that he's NOT even engaged yet and is between jobs.

Sheesh. Homeboys sounds like a handful.

Let's see, how can you tell him this nicely...

How about:

"you're not only NOT at the back of the line, you're not even IN line."

or

"Right, sure, and while you're working on that, why don't you get some help from Santa and the Easter bunny?"

or

"Too bad. So sad"

I could go on. Feeling a little feisty today...